"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Oh yeah i forgat, Me and my Girl are back together

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Remember that thread i made about "my girl dumped me etc..."

Well like i told yall the reason why she dumped me is cause she couldnt deal with my exAFC self getting angry for bs, being insecure and all the rest.

We are back now, i wont even call it a break up ill call it that it was more of a halftime break like i said in the other thread, an intermission.

everything is going perfect right now, as smooth as it can possibly be, we aint argue since we got back, man it feels good though, specially that now i know how to handle a LTR.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
 

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Originally posted by JonJack
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
yeah i have learned to handle situations like that, but if i act like a proper average dj and not like an afc i wont have to go thru no bs like that
 
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