"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Oh yeah i forgat, Me and my Girl are back together

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Remember that thread i made about "my girl dumped me etc..."

Well like i told yall the reason why she dumped me is cause she couldnt deal with my exAFC self getting angry for bs, being insecure and all the rest.

We are back now, i wont even call it a break up ill call it that it was more of a halftime break like i said in the other thread, an intermission.

everything is going perfect right now, as smooth as it can possibly be, we aint argue since we got back, man it feels good though, specially that now i know how to handle a LTR.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by Plain & Simple
believe me thats not gonna happen, we gonna be good without no arguments for a while now, i feel it this time, and normally when i feel something specially in RL's im never wrong
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
 

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Originally posted by JonJack
Danger! Danger! You believe things will turn out fine when in fact you cannot guarantee it. Hopefully it will, but if it ever goes bad, I do hope you are able to handle it. And please be mindful that relationships tend to fail.
yeah i have learned to handle situations like that, but if i act like a proper average dj and not like an afc i wont have to go thru no bs like that
 
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