Oh sh1t...

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getting straight to the point, i need to get a few dates lined up with a girl.

What are some good ideas? I hardly know her (met her at a bar) so coffee? Lunch? or do i take her to another bar and have some quiet drinks with her?

Also, what are some good drinks to have at a bar?

input appreciated, Thanks DJ's.

 

[search1ng]

Hmm, Don't call her until you have made some plans up.
common guys!

 

[Apocalypse Now]

Coffee is nice, casual, and no risk for her. Taking her to a bar might make it seem like you're trying to get her drunk.

 

[mothballs]

Pretty simple really... start off with a cup of coffee at a nice coffee shop. If she's looking to give you a chance she'll leave her afternoon open or cancel her "GTFO plan" if coffee goes well. While on the date, talk to her a bit and get to know the sorts of things she likes to do and then take it from there... go for a walk or a drive or to a museum... have lunch or w/e... most of the first date should be talking face to face. Once you know a bit about her you can plan a whole date without operating on the fly.

 

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call or text her?

 

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bump. well?

 

[Apocalypse Now]

Texting is more of a ***** move than calling.

 

[Allurre]

I got the perfect solution for you. Go Sync Dating on her. This works great if you're up for coffee dates. It's a powerful dating question game I've created, PM me and I may send you a copy in advance before my launch date.

As for bars... don't go for the bars. Coffee dates would definitely do. Somewhere conversation-friendly. Your first date should be the window to knowing one another.

Or, go for action dates (bowling, ice skating) to limit the talk.

Whatever your first few dating ideas are, keep it moving and positive. Prove yourself a "fun" person to be around with.

If you need more ideas, just message me.