"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh sh1t...

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getting straight to the point, i need to get a few dates lined up with a girl.

What are some good ideas? I hardly know her (met her at a bar) so coffee? Lunch? or do i take her to another bar and have some quiet drinks with her?

Also, what are some good drinks to have at a bar?

input appreciated, Thanks DJ's.
 
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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Hmm, Don't call her until you have made some plans up.
common guys!
 
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Coffee is nice, casual, and no risk for her. Taking her to a bar might make it seem like you're trying to get her drunk.
 
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Pretty simple really... start off with a cup of coffee at a nice coffee shop. If she's looking to give you a chance she'll leave her afternoon open or cancel her "GTFO plan" if coffee goes well. While on the date, talk to her a bit and get to know the sorts of things she likes to do and then take it from there... go for a walk or a drive or to a museum... have lunch or w/e... most of the first date should be talking face to face. Once you know a bit about her you can plan a whole date without operating on the fly.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I got the perfect solution for you. Go Sync Dating on her. This works great if you're up for coffee dates. It's a powerful dating question game I've created, PM me and I may send you a copy in advance before my launch date.

As for bars... don't go for the bars. Coffee dates would definitely do. Somewhere conversation-friendly. Your first date should be the window to knowing one another.

Or, go for action dates (bowling, ice skating) to limit the talk.

Whatever your first few dating ideas are, keep it moving and positive. Prove yourself a "fun" person to be around with.

If you need more ideas, just message me.
 
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