"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh sh1t...

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getting straight to the point, i need to get a few dates lined up with a girl.

What are some good ideas? I hardly know her (met her at a bar) so coffee? Lunch? or do i take her to another bar and have some quiet drinks with her?

Also, what are some good drinks to have at a bar?

input appreciated, Thanks DJ's.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Hmm, Don't call her until you have made some plans up.
common guys!
 
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Coffee is nice, casual, and no risk for her. Taking her to a bar might make it seem like you're trying to get her drunk.
 
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Pretty simple really... start off with a cup of coffee at a nice coffee shop. If she's looking to give you a chance she'll leave her afternoon open or cancel her "GTFO plan" if coffee goes well. While on the date, talk to her a bit and get to know the sorts of things she likes to do and then take it from there... go for a walk or a drive or to a museum... have lunch or w/e... most of the first date should be talking face to face. Once you know a bit about her you can plan a whole date without operating on the fly.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I got the perfect solution for you. Go Sync Dating on her. This works great if you're up for coffee dates. It's a powerful dating question game I've created, PM me and I may send you a copy in advance before my launch date.

As for bars... don't go for the bars. Coffee dates would definitely do. Somewhere conversation-friendly. Your first date should be the window to knowing one another.

Or, go for action dates (bowling, ice skating) to limit the talk.

Whatever your first few dating ideas are, keep it moving and positive. Prove yourself a "fun" person to be around with.

If you need more ideas, just message me.
 
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