"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh sh1t...

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getting straight to the point, i need to get a few dates lined up with a girl.

What are some good ideas? I hardly know her (met her at a bar) so coffee? Lunch? or do i take her to another bar and have some quiet drinks with her?

Also, what are some good drinks to have at a bar?

input appreciated, Thanks DJ's.
 
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hmm, Don't call her until you have made some plans up.
common guys!
 
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Coffee is nice, casual, and no risk for her. Taking her to a bar might make it seem like you're trying to get her drunk.
 
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Pretty simple really... start off with a cup of coffee at a nice coffee shop. If she's looking to give you a chance she'll leave her afternoon open or cancel her "GTFO plan" if coffee goes well. While on the date, talk to her a bit and get to know the sorts of things she likes to do and then take it from there... go for a walk or a drive or to a museum... have lunch or w/e... most of the first date should be talking face to face. Once you know a bit about her you can plan a whole date without operating on the fly.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I got the perfect solution for you. Go Sync Dating on her. This works great if you're up for coffee dates. It's a powerful dating question game I've created, PM me and I may send you a copy in advance before my launch date.

As for bars... don't go for the bars. Coffee dates would definitely do. Somewhere conversation-friendly. Your first date should be the window to knowing one another.

Or, go for action dates (bowling, ice skating) to limit the talk.

Whatever your first few dating ideas are, keep it moving and positive. Prove yourself a "fun" person to be around with.

If you need more ideas, just message me.
 
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