"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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oh SH!T i found mystery on hotornot!

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

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comic_relief said:
someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

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haha! Awesome!
 
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comic_relief said:
someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

comic_relief
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:
With the right pic, most guys can get at least a 7 on hotornot. The first pic I uploaded got a 6, and now I have one that's fetched a 9 although I don't like it because I look like a geek on the photo. The differences between the two pics are better lighting, a better haircut, and the fact that I'm not alone on the second pic.
For fun, I tried uploading two versions of the same picture, one before I photoshopped it to adjust color balance, contrast, and so on, and the second one after. I went from a 7.3 to an 8.5! And FYI, most girls I know think I'm cute but definitely not worth 8.5 or 9.
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:

Do you know of any attractive men who have no self-confident, and are chumps and wusses who are AFC to the tenth power? They buy dinners and seek women's approval, even though the women find them physically attractive. The skills that Mystery teaches has nothing to do with looks.

Do you want to learn something from the best looking person, or from the best qualified person?
 

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cyp6 said:
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RSNURQN-MKX



what the fucccccck, that him right.. when i when to log in to hotornot i recodnized him. thats him right?
Yeah, that's a stock photo of him. A while back I recall someone wanted to run an experiment on whether or not he could pull chicks on his looks. They wanted to dispute his "peacocking" theory so they said that they would post his pic so that "real women" :rolleyes: could judge him.
 
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