Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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oh SH!T i found mystery on hotornot!

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

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comic_relief said:
someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

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haha! Awesome!
 
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comic_relief said:
someone in my school sent my principal's picture to hotornot.com

It got a 3.4 for a score. He was so p!ssed off.

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Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:
With the right pic, most guys can get at least a 7 on hotornot. The first pic I uploaded got a 6, and now I have one that's fetched a 9 although I don't like it because I look like a geek on the photo. The differences between the two pics are better lighting, a better haircut, and the fact that I'm not alone on the second pic.
For fun, I tried uploading two versions of the same picture, one before I photoshopped it to adjust color balance, contrast, and so on, and the second one after. I went from a 7.3 to an 8.5! And FYI, most girls I know think I'm cute but definitely not worth 8.5 or 9.
 

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HaremMasterThomas said:
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.
As far as Mystery is concerned his photo is rated an 8 so how can he possibly give advice to ugly dudes about seducing the babes if he himself is a hunk. :crazy:

Do you know of any attractive men who have no self-confident, and are chumps and wusses who are AFC to the tenth power? They buy dinners and seek women's approval, even though the women find them physically attractive. The skills that Mystery teaches has nothing to do with looks.

Do you want to learn something from the best looking person, or from the best qualified person?
 

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cyp6 said:
http://hotornot.com/r/?eid=RSNURQN-MKX



what the fucccccck, that him right.. when i when to log in to hotornot i recodnized him. thats him right?
Yeah, that's a stock photo of him. A while back I recall someone wanted to run an experiment on whether or not he could pull chicks on his looks. They wanted to dispute his "peacocking" theory so they said that they would post his pic so that "real women" :rolleyes: could judge him.
 
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