Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
comic_relief said:
Do you think your schools principal is an unattractive man in his facial appearance or are the photos being judged on how cool the dude looks rather than how good looking he actually is.comic_relief said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
With the right pic, most guys can get at least a 7 on hotornot. The first pic I uploaded got a 6, and now I have one that's fetched a 9 although I don't like it because I look like a geek on the photo. The differences between the two pics are better lighting, a better haircut, and the fact that I'm not alone on the second pic.HaremMasterThomas said:
HaremMasterThomas said:
Yeah, that's a stock photo of him. A while back I recall someone wanted to run an experiment on whether or not he could pull chicks on his looks. They wanted to dispute his "peacocking" theory so they said that they would post his pic so that "real women"cyp6 said:
could judge him.