"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Oh no, I knew this would happen!

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Hey guys, new situation took place. I'll give some quick background info first..

Went out with this girl for a few months and she broke up with me, lost contact completely for a few months, we started talking, she wanted to get back together with me, and I said yes. (At the time, was still not over her, and I was able to use some key points to get her back.) Showed confidence, humor, and how well off I was doing with out her.

Anyway - so I got the girl back! First month we started going out was awesome, I could always see in her eyes she liked me. Now, attraction seems to be fading and she is showing less interest. We still do many physical things, but she doesn't make as much of an effort to see me. (As if she is trying to become the prize?)

So what do I do? If I cut off contact, she will break up with me and say it is not working. It just seems she doesn't like me as much as before, and I need to rekindle our relationship.

Advice is appreciated!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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lol next her . You shouldnt accept her back if she broke up with you first .
Now you've spend a month together and that chemistry is starting to fade . You cant do anything . First read ANTI DUMP MACHINE for next times .

About this girl , dump her tell her IS NOT WORKING :D . There are lot of other girls out there waiting for you :D:p

Peace
 
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Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
 
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Axcell said:
Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
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don't give her attention.
and wait until she comes to you.
don't be the one to ask to hang out or do something.
basically just ignore her, but also be nice to her when she talks to you.
 
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tease her and argue with her

-whe you argue answer all of her questions with another questions

-make a consiouc effort to control her emotions without concern for any logical outcome

then flip flop to nicey nicey and repeat!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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