"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Oh no, I knew this would happen!

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Hey guys, new situation took place. I'll give some quick background info first..

Went out with this girl for a few months and she broke up with me, lost contact completely for a few months, we started talking, she wanted to get back together with me, and I said yes. (At the time, was still not over her, and I was able to use some key points to get her back.) Showed confidence, humor, and how well off I was doing with out her.

Anyway - so I got the girl back! First month we started going out was awesome, I could always see in her eyes she liked me. Now, attraction seems to be fading and she is showing less interest. We still do many physical things, but she doesn't make as much of an effort to see me. (As if she is trying to become the prize?)

So what do I do? If I cut off contact, she will break up with me and say it is not working. It just seems she doesn't like me as much as before, and I need to rekindle our relationship.

Advice is appreciated!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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lol next her . You shouldnt accept her back if she broke up with you first .
Now you've spend a month together and that chemistry is starting to fade . You cant do anything . First read ANTI DUMP MACHINE for next times .

About this girl , dump her tell her IS NOT WORKING :D . There are lot of other girls out there waiting for you :D:p

Peace
 
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Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
 
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Axcell said:
Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
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don't give her attention.
and wait until she comes to you.
don't be the one to ask to hang out or do something.
basically just ignore her, but also be nice to her when she talks to you.
 
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tease her and argue with her

-whe you argue answer all of her questions with another questions

-make a consiouc effort to control her emotions without concern for any logical outcome

then flip flop to nicey nicey and repeat!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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