Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Oh no, I knew this would happen!

Axcell

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Hey guys, new situation took place. I'll give some quick background info first..

Went out with this girl for a few months and she broke up with me, lost contact completely for a few months, we started talking, she wanted to get back together with me, and I said yes. (At the time, was still not over her, and I was able to use some key points to get her back.) Showed confidence, humor, and how well off I was doing with out her.

Anyway - so I got the girl back! First month we started going out was awesome, I could always see in her eyes she liked me. Now, attraction seems to be fading and she is showing less interest. We still do many physical things, but she doesn't make as much of an effort to see me. (As if she is trying to become the prize?)

So what do I do? If I cut off contact, she will break up with me and say it is not working. It just seems she doesn't like me as much as before, and I need to rekindle our relationship.

Advice is appreciated!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Daddy The Pimp

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lol next her . You shouldnt accept her back if she broke up with you first .
Now you've spend a month together and that chemistry is starting to fade . You cant do anything . First read ANTI DUMP MACHINE for next times .

About this girl , dump her tell her IS NOT WORKING :D . There are lot of other girls out there waiting for you :D:p

Peace
 

Axcell

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Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
 

Crazy Asian

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Axcell said:
Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
don't give her attention.
and wait until she comes to you.
don't be the one to ask to hang out or do something.
basically just ignore her, but also be nice to her when she talks to you.
 

saber

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tease her and argue with her

-whe you argue answer all of her questions with another questions

-make a consiouc effort to control her emotions without concern for any logical outcome

then flip flop to nicey nicey and repeat!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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