"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh no, I knew this would happen!

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Hey guys, new situation took place. I'll give some quick background info first..

Went out with this girl for a few months and she broke up with me, lost contact completely for a few months, we started talking, she wanted to get back together with me, and I said yes. (At the time, was still not over her, and I was able to use some key points to get her back.) Showed confidence, humor, and how well off I was doing with out her.

Anyway - so I got the girl back! First month we started going out was awesome, I could always see in her eyes she liked me. Now, attraction seems to be fading and she is showing less interest. We still do many physical things, but she doesn't make as much of an effort to see me. (As if she is trying to become the prize?)

So what do I do? If I cut off contact, she will break up with me and say it is not working. It just seems she doesn't like me as much as before, and I need to rekindle our relationship.

Advice is appreciated!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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lol next her . You shouldnt accept her back if she broke up with you first .
Now you've spend a month together and that chemistry is starting to fade . You cant do anything . First read ANTI DUMP MACHINE for next times .

About this girl , dump her tell her IS NOT WORKING :D . There are lot of other girls out there waiting for you :D:p

Peace
 
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Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
 
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Axcell said:
Any more views? (Thanks, though. I don't want to next her, just want some methods to gain back attraction or success stories of how people were able to turn my situation around.)
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don't give her attention.
and wait until she comes to you.
don't be the one to ask to hang out or do something.
basically just ignore her, but also be nice to her when she talks to you.
 
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tease her and argue with her

-whe you argue answer all of her questions with another questions

-make a consiouc effort to control her emotions without concern for any logical outcome

then flip flop to nicey nicey and repeat!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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