"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Oh man I need help ... or am I beyond saving??

The_Unit

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Theres girl at my school who I really like, and while we were hanging out, she gets the impression that I'm easily scared. I'm really not, but sometimes it might seem that way, especially when it comes to certain things. Theres also the problem that *I think* she felt that sometimes I might not be "manly" enough...

my question is ...
did I blow it with her?? ... with all these impressions she may have of me now... oh man i scrwed up royally didnt I >.< ... how do I dig myself out of this hole ... or is it beyond saving *gulp* :nervous:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kings_royalty

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I don't think you are beyond saving, but this...or is it beyond saving *gulp*...tells me she may be on to something.

Talk to her, see if you can figure out why she has this impression about you, then fix it. It's a primal instinct for a girl to look for a 'man' that can protect her, not a boy.

I think allot of women these days are snotty and bitter because they are tired of dealing with men who have no spine, don't become one of these guys.
 

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Very vague. And the fact that you're asking us if you're beyonding saving tells me that you are beyond saving. It's the brutal reality. When you come to an online forum to ask if you are going to work with a certain woman, chances you will not.
 

youknowtherest

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WC2 said:
Very vague. And the fact that you're asking us if you're beyonding saving tells me that you are beyond saving. It's the brutal reality. When you come to an online forum to ask if you are going to work with a certain woman, chances you will not.
Damn, dude. That's harsh.

But true.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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