"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh man I need help ... or am I beyond saving??

The_Unit

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Theres girl at my school who I really like, and while we were hanging out, she gets the impression that I'm easily scared. I'm really not, but sometimes it might seem that way, especially when it comes to certain things. Theres also the problem that *I think* she felt that sometimes I might not be "manly" enough...

my question is ...
did I blow it with her?? ... with all these impressions she may have of me now... oh man i scrwed up royally didnt I >.< ... how do I dig myself out of this hole ... or is it beyond saving *gulp* :nervous:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Kings_royalty

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I don't think you are beyond saving, but this...or is it beyond saving *gulp*...tells me she may be on to something.

Talk to her, see if you can figure out why she has this impression about you, then fix it. It's a primal instinct for a girl to look for a 'man' that can protect her, not a boy.

I think allot of women these days are snotty and bitter because they are tired of dealing with men who have no spine, don't become one of these guys.
 

WC2

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Very vague. And the fact that you're asking us if you're beyonding saving tells me that you are beyond saving. It's the brutal reality. When you come to an online forum to ask if you are going to work with a certain woman, chances you will not.
 

youknowtherest

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WC2 said:
Very vague. And the fact that you're asking us if you're beyonding saving tells me that you are beyond saving. It's the brutal reality. When you come to an online forum to ask if you are going to work with a certain woman, chances you will not.
Damn, dude. That's harsh.

But true.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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