"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh god!

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Oh god! (fixed link)

Hey, I just checked out the Facebook of some girl that I went out with and got sexual offers from and turned down because I was nervous as all hell. She broke up with me after a day because of the fact that I wouldn't do anything with her.

http://imgur.com/bRmCR

Far left. Should I kill myself? LOL. It's funny in a "holy **** I'm a dumbass, why!!!!" kinda way :/

Also be interesting if anyone else has similar experiences and can link to some pictures :p this can be like the "OH GOD WHY DID I SAY NO!" Thread.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I can remember plenty of times where there were some good signs and I didn't do anything, but never somebody flat out offering . .

Wait, I was offered once to join a guy and girl already fooling around, and nearly vomited at the thought of it.
 

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Forty0ztoFreedom said:
Wait, I was offered once to join a guy and girl already fooling around, and nearly vomited at the thought of it.
Haha don't worry, I'm sure that's pretty normal, I'd be sick at anything involving another guy too :p
 

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Othello said:
Your link doesn't work.

Print screen - Paint - Save - www.imgur.com - post link.

Easy
http://imgur.com/bRmCR

Note that I met her when she was with the hambeast on the right :p but surprisingly she didn't c0ckblock and kinda tried to help her friend out, so I guess I shouldn't call her that lol

Feel free to slap me, but I want some other guys to post hot girls they turned down in the AFC days too :)
 

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yeah, your should hang yourself right now. That's probably the last time you'll get a chance with a girl THAT hot, so might as well just end it now.

Oh, and I should mention that there's a hell of sarcasm is my above statement. Yeah, she's hot but nothing too crazy. Sucks you got nervous and she's impatient, but nothing you can do now.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I turned her down a few years ago. She was okay, but still very doable. Came at me somewhat strong, but I never did anything because I was with someone, plus I figured she might have some STD's sending me pictures like this.

Pic removed just cause
 
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I'm going to have to have a talk with my sister...:mad:
 
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