"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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offering her help on something..friendzone?

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Is it always likely to go one way i.e. friendzone if you offer your help to a woman?

A woman I sarged has the same taste as movies as me and I was showing her on her laptop she could stream movies online. She says she only wants to watch it on a big flat screen and I was telling her about what cables she needs etc. she was really excited about it but I didn't offer to come round and show her but I could.

Is this a silly offer to make?

I'm very conscious that I could be friendzoned but my sinister thinking is that if she lets me come in and I manage to get it all set up to watch a film she might invite me to stay and have dinner and watch a film with her and who knows.. maybe i'll get some if i can make her wet with a bit of convo.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Why not, it is a perfect pretense to "help her". You have to use other means apart from convo to get her wet.
 
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I think guys worry too much about this kind of thing and the sad thing is girls will often use this plea for help as a way of getting you to spend time with them.

When it comes to the friendzone, the most important thing to remember is that you must make your intentions clear, flirt with her, talk sexually, tease and neg hit her.

The friendzone is usually for guys who act too much like a friend and don't have the balls to escalate.
 
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