"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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offering her help on something..friendzone?

big weezy

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Is it always likely to go one way i.e. friendzone if you offer your help to a woman?

A woman I sarged has the same taste as movies as me and I was showing her on her laptop she could stream movies online. She says she only wants to watch it on a big flat screen and I was telling her about what cables she needs etc. she was really excited about it but I didn't offer to come round and show her but I could.

Is this a silly offer to make?

I'm very conscious that I could be friendzoned but my sinister thinking is that if she lets me come in and I manage to get it all set up to watch a film she might invite me to stay and have dinner and watch a film with her and who knows.. maybe i'll get some if i can make her wet with a bit of convo.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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PapiChulo

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Why not, it is a perfect pretense to "help her". You have to use other means apart from convo to get her wet.
 

Jariel

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I think guys worry too much about this kind of thing and the sad thing is girls will often use this plea for help as a way of getting you to spend time with them.

When it comes to the friendzone, the most important thing to remember is that you must make your intentions clear, flirt with her, talk sexually, tease and neg hit her.

The friendzone is usually for guys who act too much like a friend and don't have the balls to escalate.
 
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