"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Offered WhatsApp instead of cell

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'll be honest, I'm not a texter phone chatter or a social media guru. Couldn't care less about Twitter, Instaho, or Fvckbook. I never saw what was so great with any of these platforms. Phones are for setting dates, not to chat with the ladies. If the lady wants to chat with me, meet me at my place, I'll meet at her place, or we go out. If that makes me weird or out of touch, okay. I have this whatsapp thing, I do not know why it's so revolutionary in the US. Yes, internationally, where SMS is expensive, I can see it holds value. In the US and Canada, everyone has free unlimited calls and texts. How it was worth 19 billion dollars makes little sense. However Instaho is worth 100 billion dollars just shows how thirsty the regular man is to interact with ladies of their dreams, as well as how much attention ladies need from strangers. It's childish and juvenile.
that is teh thing sms TODAY on US is free, because of this app, same some plans give free internet usage on whatsapp, reason is to try and lure more consumers on they company, if was not for it you could bet you asss you would have to pay, even more since it was a teen thing, and the app is used for contact in bussiness too, plus it makes a good source of log, or it was before the whole you can delete the msg now
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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