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How This "Nice Guy" Steals Women from Jerks

Did you know a woman can be totally UN-ATTRACTED to you...

And she'll still sleep with you?

If you've ever seen a girl go home with some asshole she didn't even LIKE, you know this is true.

But how is this possible?

Because deep inside her brain, sexual desire has nothing to do with what you LOOK like...

And everything to do with how you make her FEEL.

Matt Cook knows this all too well.

Matt is a nice guy... but he steals women from JERKS all the time.

In this free video training below, he'll show you how he does it:

How to Control Her Emotions and Make Her Chase You

I_Only_Live_Once

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#22
One of the best posts I've ever read.
 

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#23
Great post but it doesn't really cover getting the mindset.

What I learned, and what one of the posters pointed out. You only gain this perspective from a lot of experience. You HAVE to know what you want in a woman, and you MUST know your own value in order to have this mindset. There are NO shortcuts. You can't get this experience from 3 or 5 approaches.

Otherwise it's like saying "You got to have confidence" without really saying how to obtain it.
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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#24
I somewhat agree with that, but not entirely. Although experience is desired, the confidence should come first. For example, you can go into a job and be confident even if you've never worked there before. I'm sure Bill Gates didn't enter business by saying "gee I don't have any experience here compared to those other guys. I probably won't do very well". Or Tiger Woods saying "I'm too young to play, these guys are more experienced and are more confident than me".
I think experience is used to compliment your confidence that you should already have. As Pook says "Success is achieved first through the mind, then through the world, never the other way around."
 
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#25
bump
 

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OK I'm confused by the "chicken or the egg" thing going on.

Are we saying that confidence comes from success or success comes from confidence?

Obviously we get confidence from having our lives in order. But the original post says that this isn't the point... we should have the mindset FIRST and success (in all phases) will come later.

Does anyone have a suggestion for tricking the old mind into feeling this confidence "early"?
 
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