"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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off topic maybe but what you all think of Sperm donation

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I am fine with it as long as the child is being raised in a traditional marriage. No single moms, no gays. The point of all these medical advancements are to promote life, not to exploit it.

Unfortunately, sperm banks are typically filled with vain reasons to procreate.
 

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I think if you're just doing it for the money, then you're doing it for the wrong reasons. (There's a lot easier and simpler ways to gain a quick $60 bucks). If you feel you are providing to needing couples, than right on. I just don't know if I could handle getting all the phone calls later from an angsty teenage punks demanding to meet their "REAL father". Just seems like it could end up being a huge headache again. Although I have heard that most clinics will keep that information private.
 

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It's for both reasons. To help people have as child and the money. I also. donate plasma for same reasons. The only thing I don't like is not knowing who is mixing my DNA with their own. I don't want someone with bad genetics creating s child with me, or abusive parents.
 

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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logicallefty said:
OP, if you donate sperm in the year 2014 you are crazy.

Have you heard of this and other cases like it? :

http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/
It should be noted that the man in that case did not go to a sperm bank, he just gave his sperm to some lesbians. The court didn't like it because there was no physician involved. In other words, the government wasn't able to regulate and control the process. So they're making him pay.

If you donate to a sperm bank, can't you retain your anonymity somehow, if you want to?
 

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vinkoch said:
$60 to give a specimen up to 12 times per month
So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
 

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Is it just me, or is that dude the bottom of the DNA barrel.
 

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mangotot said:
So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
I didn't explain this well. It's $60/ specimen and you can donate up to 12 times per month. probably an hour per session. That's a good deal. Plasma donation sucks for the money because it takes way too long and pays max $240 per month and I feel like crap afterward bit it's a more noble cause by far
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I find it stupid, also you should look in the laws of your country, I did heard some country was trying to make the donors to have to pay for being the kid parent in case the kid want plus being forced to know who the kid was in case he wish for,

also you can't control on who will receive your "donation" and how the kid would be educated, if its a couple who can't have kids adopt one.

if you really need money just do a normal job it pay more and not headache in the future, just think you are poor now but in 10 years you work hard and get rich, then court order you spend time with that donation you did 10 years ago, ah and since you are so damn rich you will have to pay for the kid since well you are the parent.

serious i'm all up to do things you are not ashamed and if anyone find out after years it should always something you are or proud of or its normal.
 
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