"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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off topic maybe but what you all think of Sperm donation

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I am fine with it as long as the child is being raised in a traditional marriage. No single moms, no gays. The point of all these medical advancements are to promote life, not to exploit it.

Unfortunately, sperm banks are typically filled with vain reasons to procreate.
 

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I think if you're just doing it for the money, then you're doing it for the wrong reasons. (There's a lot easier and simpler ways to gain a quick $60 bucks). If you feel you are providing to needing couples, than right on. I just don't know if I could handle getting all the phone calls later from an angsty teenage punks demanding to meet their "REAL father". Just seems like it could end up being a huge headache again. Although I have heard that most clinics will keep that information private.
 

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It's for both reasons. To help people have as child and the money. I also. donate plasma for same reasons. The only thing I don't like is not knowing who is mixing my DNA with their own. I don't want someone with bad genetics creating s child with me, or abusive parents.
 

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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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logicallefty said:
OP, if you donate sperm in the year 2014 you are crazy.

Have you heard of this and other cases like it? :

http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/
It should be noted that the man in that case did not go to a sperm bank, he just gave his sperm to some lesbians. The court didn't like it because there was no physician involved. In other words, the government wasn't able to regulate and control the process. So they're making him pay.

If you donate to a sperm bank, can't you retain your anonymity somehow, if you want to?
 

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vinkoch said:
$60 to give a specimen up to 12 times per month
So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
 

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Is it just me, or is that dude the bottom of the DNA barrel.
 

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mangotot said:
So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
I didn't explain this well. It's $60/ specimen and you can donate up to 12 times per month. probably an hour per session. That's a good deal. Plasma donation sucks for the money because it takes way too long and pays max $240 per month and I feel like crap afterward bit it's a more noble cause by far
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I find it stupid, also you should look in the laws of your country, I did heard some country was trying to make the donors to have to pay for being the kid parent in case the kid want plus being forced to know who the kid was in case he wish for,

also you can't control on who will receive your "donation" and how the kid would be educated, if its a couple who can't have kids adopt one.

if you really need money just do a normal job it pay more and not headache in the future, just think you are poor now but in 10 years you work hard and get rich, then court order you spend time with that donation you did 10 years ago, ah and since you are so damn rich you will have to pay for the kid since well you are the parent.

serious i'm all up to do things you are not ashamed and if anyone find out after years it should always something you are or proud of or its normal.
 
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