"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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off topic maybe but what you all think of Sperm donation

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I am fine with it as long as the child is being raised in a traditional marriage. No single moms, no gays. The point of all these medical advancements are to promote life, not to exploit it.

Unfortunately, sperm banks are typically filled with vain reasons to procreate.
 
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I think if you're just doing it for the money, then you're doing it for the wrong reasons. (There's a lot easier and simpler ways to gain a quick $60 bucks). If you feel you are providing to needing couples, than right on. I just don't know if I could handle getting all the phone calls later from an angsty teenage punks demanding to meet their "REAL father". Just seems like it could end up being a huge headache again. Although I have heard that most clinics will keep that information private.
 
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It's for both reasons. To help people have as child and the money. I also. donate plasma for same reasons. The only thing I don't like is not knowing who is mixing my DNA with their own. I don't want someone with bad genetics creating s child with me, or abusive parents.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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logicallefty said:
OP, if you donate sperm in the year 2014 you are crazy.

Have you heard of this and other cases like it? :

http://www.cnn.com/2014/01/23/justice/kansas-sperm-donation/
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It should be noted that the man in that case did not go to a sperm bank, he just gave his sperm to some lesbians. The court didn't like it because there was no physician involved. In other words, the government wasn't able to regulate and control the process. So they're making him pay.

If you donate to a sperm bank, can't you retain your anonymity somehow, if you want to?
 
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$60 to give a specimen up to 12 times per month
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So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
 
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Is it just me, or is that dude the bottom of the DNA barrel.
 
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So you potentially have to go there 12 times for $60. Don't sound like a good deal. You're better off flipping burgers in Mac D.
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I didn't explain this well. It's $60/ specimen and you can donate up to 12 times per month. probably an hour per session. That's a good deal. Plasma donation sucks for the money because it takes way too long and pays max $240 per month and I feel like crap afterward bit it's a more noble cause by far
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I find it stupid, also you should look in the laws of your country, I did heard some country was trying to make the donors to have to pay for being the kid parent in case the kid want plus being forced to know who the kid was in case he wish for,

also you can't control on who will receive your "donation" and how the kid would be educated, if its a couple who can't have kids adopt one.

if you really need money just do a normal job it pay more and not headache in the future, just think you are poor now but in 10 years you work hard and get rich, then court order you spend time with that donation you did 10 years ago, ah and since you are so damn rich you will have to pay for the kid since well you are the parent.

serious i'm all up to do things you are not ashamed and if anyone find out after years it should always something you are or proud of or its normal.
 
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