"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Off the boat asian, movie or a party

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I met this asian girl at a Twins game tonight. I was hammered so I got her number. She seemed shy but took my phone after asking for her number and put it in (I was probably too drunk to put it in).

Anyways I wanna bang a Japanese girl before I die. With this broad is it best to take an off the boat Japanese girl (probably has the anti-sex on first date bug up her butt) to a party (not sure if she drinks, she may feel uncomfortable) or to a movie (where she may feel more relaxed)

Looking for guys with asian women experience.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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action date. no movies. go somewhere fun then to the party afterwards perhaps?
 
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Just take her wherever and tell her what you told us, tell her you want to bang a japanese girl before you die and if she plays her cards right, she can be that girl. ;)
 
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I wouldn't take her to a party because other guys will flirt with her and she will likely flirt back with them.

I wouldn't worry so much about her being japanese, because you met her at a baseball game. Just build more comfort than you normally would, otherwise game her the same you would any other woman.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No one likes movie idea?

I suppose that sounds a little too intimate for getting to know her for like 2 minutes in the concession line.
 
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Man do something interesting in your area. If she really is FOB, then she'll have a better time seeing the sights around town than sitting at a movie theatre.
 
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she's been at my local university for roughly a year I think so she probably knows the area. I've only been here for a few months so I dunno what is good in minneapolis.
 
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itishe said:
she's been at my local university for roughly a year I think so she probably knows the area. I've only been here for a few months so I dunno what is good in minneapolis.
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No excuses. Who cares if she's been there a year, it's up to you to find something interesting unless you are just going to go see movies every date. Just do something with her, if there isn't anything interesting, which there probably is, just go for drinks or coffee, then do something else. Get to know her, build comfort and flirt with her, and remember to kino.

Honestly you are over thinking this to much. Just go for it.
 
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SharinganUser said:
No excuses. Who cares if she's been there a year, it's up to you to find something interesting unless you are just going to go see movies every date. Just do something with her, if there isn't anything interesting, which there probably is, just go for drinks or coffee, then do something else. Get to know her, build comfort and flirt with her, and remember to kino.

Honestly you are over thinking this to much. Just go for it.
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I am. I really just have had yellow fever bad lately. I don't mind going on "action" dates it's just seems like too much work to find a place online, find the bus route, ride a bus to a date (wtf), etc.

I think getting coffee or tea on campus would be cool, I like this one a lot actually. She'll probably be more into this as we didn't get much time to talk.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SharinganUser said:
I wouldn't take her to a party because other guys will flirt with her and she will likely flirt back with them.
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Exactly. How dumb an idea is it to take a girl, ur trying to get with to a party?
 
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itishe said:
I am. I really just have had yellow fever bad lately. I don't mind going on "action" dates it's just seems like too much work to find a place online, find the bus route, ride a bus to a date (wtf), etc.

I think getting coffee or tea on campus would be cool, I like this one a lot actually. She'll probably be more into this as we didn't get much time to talk.
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living in Asia has taught me: Asian girls are the same as the others
 
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I been with my girl for like 2 years so I've fallen out of the dating game.

I got her number wed night so would you say it's right to call tomorrow and set up something for like tuesday night?
 
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