"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Off the boat asian, movie or a party

itishe

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I met this asian girl at a Twins game tonight. I was hammered so I got her number. She seemed shy but took my phone after asking for her number and put it in (I was probably too drunk to put it in).

Anyways I wanna bang a Japanese girl before I die. With this broad is it best to take an off the boat Japanese girl (probably has the anti-sex on first date bug up her butt) to a party (not sure if she drinks, she may feel uncomfortable) or to a movie (where she may feel more relaxed)

Looking for guys with asian women experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Warrior74

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action date. no movies. go somewhere fun then to the party afterwards perhaps?
 

King Turi

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Just take her wherever and tell her what you told us, tell her you want to bang a japanese girl before you die and if she plays her cards right, she can be that girl. ;)
 

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I wouldn't take her to a party because other guys will flirt with her and she will likely flirt back with them.

I wouldn't worry so much about her being japanese, because you met her at a baseball game. Just build more comfort than you normally would, otherwise game her the same you would any other woman.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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itishe

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No one likes movie idea?

I suppose that sounds a little too intimate for getting to know her for like 2 minutes in the concession line.
 

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Man do something interesting in your area. If she really is FOB, then she'll have a better time seeing the sights around town than sitting at a movie theatre.
 

itishe

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she's been at my local university for roughly a year I think so she probably knows the area. I've only been here for a few months so I dunno what is good in minneapolis.
 

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itishe said:
she's been at my local university for roughly a year I think so she probably knows the area. I've only been here for a few months so I dunno what is good in minneapolis.

No excuses. Who cares if she's been there a year, it's up to you to find something interesting unless you are just going to go see movies every date. Just do something with her, if there isn't anything interesting, which there probably is, just go for drinks or coffee, then do something else. Get to know her, build comfort and flirt with her, and remember to kino.

Honestly you are over thinking this to much. Just go for it.
 

itishe

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SharinganUser said:
No excuses. Who cares if she's been there a year, it's up to you to find something interesting unless you are just going to go see movies every date. Just do something with her, if there isn't anything interesting, which there probably is, just go for drinks or coffee, then do something else. Get to know her, build comfort and flirt with her, and remember to kino.

Honestly you are over thinking this to much. Just go for it.
I am. I really just have had yellow fever bad lately. I don't mind going on "action" dates it's just seems like too much work to find a place online, find the bus route, ride a bus to a date (wtf), etc.

I think getting coffee or tea on campus would be cool, I like this one a lot actually. She'll probably be more into this as we didn't get much time to talk.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SharinganUser said:
I wouldn't take her to a party because other guys will flirt with her and she will likely flirt back with them.
Exactly. How dumb an idea is it to take a girl, ur trying to get with to a party?
 

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itishe said:
I am. I really just have had yellow fever bad lately. I don't mind going on "action" dates it's just seems like too much work to find a place online, find the bus route, ride a bus to a date (wtf), etc.

I think getting coffee or tea on campus would be cool, I like this one a lot actually. She'll probably be more into this as we didn't get much time to talk.
living in Asia has taught me: Asian girls are the same as the others
 

itishe

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I been with my girl for like 2 years so I've fallen out of the dating game.

I got her number wed night so would you say it's right to call tomorrow and set up something for like tuesday night?
 
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