"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Odd, yet true story: Shooting pool with a bum!

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Alright tonight i was gonna meet up some buddies for some good ol pool. They didnt show yet so i opened a table first.
Then out of nowhere, this ungroomed, smelly, well dressing drunk guy with $$$(he showed me his moola), yes you could classify him as a rich bum.

he comes up to me and asks if i want a game. since my friends didnt hsow yet, i say sure. it was hilarious cause he was half drunk, and i wasnt taking the game seriously, missing all my shots. the poeople at the pool hall were giving me & him strange looks constantly.

Then my friends showed up and i ended the game, he said OK and left. My friends wanted a table change cause the area stunk, then we changed again cause the other table was messed up...
another funny thing was my friend thought he was my boss when he first saw him...HAHAHA
Surprisingly he also knew quite a bit about playing and rules also

Yea anyway this was truly an eye opener for me...glances and looks of shun/disgust.... but it didnt matter to me cause i had nothing to worry about. Bum's are people too after all anyway....just drunks who who want to escape reality. That's why i never give bums change in the street, all they'll do is get more drunk.

But i wonder if sh!t like this makes people lose respect for me, example: cashier guy or regular pool hall junkies
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would rather be a bum with a wad of cash than a cashier at a pool hall or a pool hall junkie.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
I would rather be a bum with a wad of cash than a cashier at a pool hall or a pool hall junkie.
A bum with a wad of cash is just a bum with a bunch of empty Jacks bottles the next day.
 

belividere

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So does that equate him to the average college student or put him above them?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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So does that equate him to the average college student or put him above them?
lol sonned.
 
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