"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Odd, yet true story: Shooting pool with a bum!

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Alright tonight i was gonna meet up some buddies for some good ol pool. They didnt show yet so i opened a table first.
Then out of nowhere, this ungroomed, smelly, well dressing drunk guy with $$$(he showed me his moola), yes you could classify him as a rich bum.

he comes up to me and asks if i want a game. since my friends didnt hsow yet, i say sure. it was hilarious cause he was half drunk, and i wasnt taking the game seriously, missing all my shots. the poeople at the pool hall were giving me & him strange looks constantly.

Then my friends showed up and i ended the game, he said OK and left. My friends wanted a table change cause the area stunk, then we changed again cause the other table was messed up...
another funny thing was my friend thought he was my boss when he first saw him...HAHAHA
Surprisingly he also knew quite a bit about playing and rules also

Yea anyway this was truly an eye opener for me...glances and looks of shun/disgust.... but it didnt matter to me cause i had nothing to worry about. Bum's are people too after all anyway....just drunks who who want to escape reality. That's why i never give bums change in the street, all they'll do is get more drunk.

But i wonder if sh!t like this makes people lose respect for me, example: cashier guy or regular pool hall junkies
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I would rather be a bum with a wad of cash than a cashier at a pool hall or a pool hall junkie.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
I would rather be a bum with a wad of cash than a cashier at a pool hall or a pool hall junkie.
A bum with a wad of cash is just a bum with a bunch of empty Jacks bottles the next day.
 

belividere

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So does that equate him to the average college student or put him above them?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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So does that equate him to the average college student or put him above them?
lol sonned.
 
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