"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Fatality
I think its kind of ridiculous to hire some guy to really protect the bar just because he was charming. Tom Cruise is charming but I wouldn't want him guarding my bar. All 5'6 150lbs of him.

Next time go a little more into detail rather than give 1-2 word answers and I won't be an idiot.:rolleyes:
Not charm in the sense of a quality necessitating a bouncer, but in how I'm able to talk my way in or out of any given situation (in this case, getting hired). Otherwise, my ability to disarm people has been useful in stopping three different fights from breaking out, which is more useful than breaking up a fight that has already happened in the first place.

We actually had a guy who was only 5'6" and 150 on staff. But he could kick anyone's ass.

My last shrapnel of advice is learn how to look people in the eye as if you own them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I was a bouncer at a club here in New York last year.

I'm 6'2 and at the time I weighed 266 pounds and I'm naturally built and solid so I had no problem getting the job.

Actually, its kind of funny how I got the job.

This guy I knew saw me at a little after hours club literally picking up chicks and using them to do arm curls and shoulder presses and stuff, ya know just having fun the chicks.

He was impressed with my build and natural strength and asked me if I wanted to do security at another club and I accepted.

I'm not a bouncer anymore and I've slimmed down to a more toned 232 pounds but I'm still strong as a bull and I'm always ready to kick ass if I have to.
 
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