"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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obtaining girl's number through mutual friend

aschillascanbe

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went out with a mutual friend to meet 2 girls.. decided that i wanna game one of the girls.. there was abit of IOIs going on.. kino and etc.. in the end i didn't manage to get her number.. my friend says he can give it to me after informing her..

the hang out wasn't exactly ideal.. i mean me and my friend have only known each other for a short while.. the rapport between us is not that strong.. i would dread another hang out like this.. im confident that i can do it much better by myself..

what do you guys think of it? should i just go ahead and do it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Scars

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What you should had done:

Had a good meet up and and got her number that night.

What you should do now:

Don't attempt to get her number without good rapport, she will just see you as creepy. Rather, talk to your friend about getting all of you guys for a second meet up and make a better impression and follow the first advice.

If she flakes or refuses, move on.

-Scars
 

VladPatton

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ALWAYS get the number yourself. It shows confidence and is a good exercise to get you used to doing it. Do it yourself, man, regardless of the outcome.
 
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