"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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obtaining girl's number through mutual friend

aschillascanbe

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went out with a mutual friend to meet 2 girls.. decided that i wanna game one of the girls.. there was abit of IOIs going on.. kino and etc.. in the end i didn't manage to get her number.. my friend says he can give it to me after informing her..

the hang out wasn't exactly ideal.. i mean me and my friend have only known each other for a short while.. the rapport between us is not that strong.. i would dread another hang out like this.. im confident that i can do it much better by myself..

what do you guys think of it? should i just go ahead and do it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Scars

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What you should had done:

Had a good meet up and and got her number that night.

What you should do now:

Don't attempt to get her number without good rapport, she will just see you as creepy. Rather, talk to your friend about getting all of you guys for a second meet up and make a better impression and follow the first advice.

If she flakes or refuses, move on.

-Scars
 

VladPatton

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ALWAYS get the number yourself. It shows confidence and is a good exercise to get you used to doing it. Do it yourself, man, regardless of the outcome.
 
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