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Observations on Dallas' Scene

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Online dating world has ruined, RUINED, any natural human connection, and the ego of women. Even if they know they are past their primes. I often thought of going to those types of places to get a little easy cougar p*s, but it ain't worth it. Too many women acting like they are 16 again just cause their Tinder has 100+ guys.
This is an interesting point of view.

Sambuca has had the reputation of being a place where horny, motivated divorced women go to seek new penis.

It's possible that with the rise of swipe apps and social media DMs that middle aged divorced women are less motivated to go to a place like Sambuca to find some new penis. Many of the late 30s/early 40s women that would typically go to Sambuca aren't going as much anymore because they can hop on Tinder/Bumble/Hinge and have 100+ guys as compared to going to Sambuca where they might meet 5-10 guys. No nightlife venue can compare on quantity with the big swipe apps. Additionally, many of these women are also receiving DMs on their social media platforms. This mainly happens on Instagram, but can happen on others. This depends on how active she is on the various social media platforms.

I think it's possible that the women who actually show up to a place like Sambuca are accustomed to seeing hundreds of options on their smartphone. Many of them have forgotten about what it's like to be touching concrete and in the real world. The ones that might be open to human connection are the ones that have gotten out of a long relationship/marriage, haven't used swipe apps, and aren't very active on social media.

The female crowd at Sambuca was sparse that night. The fewer ~40 year old women that were present in the bar were acting like they were 21-25 year olds in their primes.
 

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