"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Observation from Germany

yake

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Hi. I live in a small town in Germany. In my state, our town has the highest percentage of foreigners. They roughly split into two groups: turks and russians. Now, I don't mind them living here, that's not what this post is about. But, they seem to be a great example of confidence. A lot of these guys are veeery confident. In the case of the turks, they are usually skinny but move around in groups and wear nice clothes. In the case of the russians, they usually work out, are relatively buff but don'T necessairly move around in flocks. The people in both of these groups are more confident than the average german. But then, there are the confident germans, as well. They are either big and strong like the russians, or have tons of friends to protect them, or both. All three of these groups are more successfull than skinny germans (or half germans in my case) of course. But, then there are the handsome skinny guys with confidence. They get the smaller but pretties women.
Yeah, I know, this all sounds like a bunch of stereotypes, but for the most part, it's true.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Patrick124

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thats cool?
i'll be in garmisch germany in january. and hten munich for one night. :)
 

ChrizZ

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I´m also from Germany. It´s true. I think the reason for this is because people from turkey are more outgoing. They are usually raised with a lot of sisters and aren´t "afraid" of women because of that. The Russians are the gangsta types. Kinda like the gangsta black dudes in the US.
 
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