"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Observation from Germany

yake

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Hi. I live in a small town in Germany. In my state, our town has the highest percentage of foreigners. They roughly split into two groups: turks and russians. Now, I don't mind them living here, that's not what this post is about. But, they seem to be a great example of confidence. A lot of these guys are veeery confident. In the case of the turks, they are usually skinny but move around in groups and wear nice clothes. In the case of the russians, they usually work out, are relatively buff but don'T necessairly move around in flocks. The people in both of these groups are more confident than the average german. But then, there are the confident germans, as well. They are either big and strong like the russians, or have tons of friends to protect them, or both. All three of these groups are more successfull than skinny germans (or half germans in my case) of course. But, then there are the handsome skinny guys with confidence. They get the smaller but pretties women.
Yeah, I know, this all sounds like a bunch of stereotypes, but for the most part, it's true.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thats cool?
i'll be in garmisch germany in january. and hten munich for one night. :)
 

ChrizZ

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I´m also from Germany. It´s true. I think the reason for this is because people from turkey are more outgoing. They are usually raised with a lot of sisters and aren´t "afraid" of women because of that. The Russians are the gangsta types. Kinda like the gangsta black dudes in the US.
 
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