penkitten
Master Don Juan
interceptor, whomever wrote that, has a much better way with words than i do!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Objective: The New Recruit Briefing!
- Thread starter Victory Unlimited
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
And of course a lot of dudes have to lean on the female, which is what much of this board can be about, leaning on the female, looking to her for strength, looking at her to give him purpose, and chucking the important stuff in order to try to get that from her full-time. Guilty.
But once a man realizes that doesn't work, (usually after being burned REALLY badly) he can flip it around and do things the right way.
But once a man realizes that doesn't work, (usually after being burned REALLY badly) he can flip it around and do things the right way.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
which is exactly why this board is here, to help them realize what direction to take.reset said:
what a good statement reset.
kickureface
Master Don Juan
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do you guys have more plans for this post?
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Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Yo Kickureface,
The primary objectives behind this thread was to first point out the potential trap that awaits men who mistake simply the acquisition of strategies and tactics with the actual accomplishment of INTERNALIZING the core things that ultimately make a man truly become a BETTER man.
To reach this goal, we plan on posting reminders LIKE this one in the general discussion, the tips section, and other places just to keep the awareness that there should be HIGHER goals here than ONLY attracting the women we want into our lives------and one of them is becoming the kind of man who can KEEP them wanting to remain in our lives.
The right women are great and can be a most valuable asset in the lives of men, but they should only be a byproduct of a life filled with many other great achievements. But because this IS a dating site, we would be remiss if we did NOT address this subjects as frequently and specifically as we do.
But in addressing it, our goal is to also point out, evaluate, and FIX (if need be) the underlying issues that may impede us in our progress to obtain healthier and more fulfilling outlooks on women and relationships.
And Kickureface,
ONE way I'd suggest you continue to advance on your OWN path of continued development would be to seek out, read, and take the time to contemplate threads on Sosuave that get to "the crux" of a lot of our relationship/manhood issues as opposed to the ones that just skim the surface-------like the ones that are already listed in my signature lines below (that is, if you haven't read them already...).
And don't just stop THERE.
Many of the brave men and women who have posted in THIS very thread, I'm sure, have just as many threads that they've authored, OR ones that they'd like to recommend to the troops on here too-----threads that offer a more lasting solution to problems, and not just a "quick fix".
I only ask that those who do choose to get with this program of self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-improvement do so with an OPEN MIND.
If the things that we post or recommend ring true to you------take it to heart. But if the things that we post or recommend don't ring true to you----------leave it alone.
And if you find there are things that we post or recommend give you pause, or you take issue with, or you have questions about------then feel free to use them as FUEL to fire up a respectful DISCUSSION amongst all of us soldiers who are in the process of marching along the SAME path.
March on.
The primary objectives behind this thread was to first point out the potential trap that awaits men who mistake simply the acquisition of strategies and tactics with the actual accomplishment of INTERNALIZING the core things that ultimately make a man truly become a BETTER man.
To reach this goal, we plan on posting reminders LIKE this one in the general discussion, the tips section, and other places just to keep the awareness that there should be HIGHER goals here than ONLY attracting the women we want into our lives------and one of them is becoming the kind of man who can KEEP them wanting to remain in our lives.
The right women are great and can be a most valuable asset in the lives of men, but they should only be a byproduct of a life filled with many other great achievements. But because this IS a dating site, we would be remiss if we did NOT address this subjects as frequently and specifically as we do.
But in addressing it, our goal is to also point out, evaluate, and FIX (if need be) the underlying issues that may impede us in our progress to obtain healthier and more fulfilling outlooks on women and relationships.
And Kickureface,
ONE way I'd suggest you continue to advance on your OWN path of continued development would be to seek out, read, and take the time to contemplate threads on Sosuave that get to "the crux" of a lot of our relationship/manhood issues as opposed to the ones that just skim the surface-------like the ones that are already listed in my signature lines below (that is, if you haven't read them already...).
And don't just stop THERE.
Many of the brave men and women who have posted in THIS very thread, I'm sure, have just as many threads that they've authored, OR ones that they'd like to recommend to the troops on here too-----threads that offer a more lasting solution to problems, and not just a "quick fix".
I only ask that those who do choose to get with this program of self-awareness, self-reflection, and self-improvement do so with an OPEN MIND.
If the things that we post or recommend ring true to you------take it to heart. But if the things that we post or recommend don't ring true to you----------leave it alone.
And if you find there are things that we post or recommend give you pause, or you take issue with, or you have questions about------then feel free to use them as FUEL to fire up a respectful DISCUSSION amongst all of us soldiers who are in the process of marching along the SAME path.
March on.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
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Master Don Juan
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You are your Devil, but you are your Angel as well.
Whatever you resist, persists.
Whatever you embrace, you gain power to use.
The only REAL Help, is Self Help.
Do not wallow in Self Pity.
You are your Devil, but you are your Angel as well.
Whatever you resist, persists.
Whatever you embrace, you gain power to use.
The only REAL Help, is Self Help.
Do not wallow in Self Pity.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Everything you have EVER WANTED has actually been OUTSIDE of your COMFORT ZONE.
All your Life is simply a collection of your Expereinces, all your Experiences are simply your HABITS, and your (often Self Limiting) BELIEFS.
Gentlemen, I implore you.......
UNderstand that your Suffering is because of not what you LACK but because YOU are NOT MOVING Forward.
Yes, you do not SEE these things you want in your Life right now.
This DOES NOT MEAN you CANNOT Have them, or are not deserving of it!
But you must PUT YOURSELF in the SPACE READY TO RECEIVE THEM AND APPRECIATE THEM!!!
Do you understand??!!
Do you??
It is all your Mind Set!!
IF you believe ONLY in "I lack (insert object here) ", then you will ONLY "SEE" "Evidence" that YOU LACK!!
Your Goals are NOT WOMEN.
Your Goal is to IMPROVE your LIFE and Enrich your Experiences.......
..AND GET RID OF THOSE SELF LIMITING BELIEFS AND DESTRUCTIVE HABITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How can you EXPECT success when you are NOT taking steps to move forward??
"Character is DESTINY."
What is YOUR Destiny??!
Build your CHARACTER , gentlemen.
It ain't what some of you wanted to hear........but this is your Salvation.
Only you can do this for yourself.
All your Life is simply a collection of your Expereinces, all your Experiences are simply your HABITS, and your (often Self Limiting) BELIEFS.
Gentlemen, I implore you.......
UNderstand that your Suffering is because of not what you LACK but because YOU are NOT MOVING Forward.
Yes, you do not SEE these things you want in your Life right now.
This DOES NOT MEAN you CANNOT Have them, or are not deserving of it!
But you must PUT YOURSELF in the SPACE READY TO RECEIVE THEM AND APPRECIATE THEM!!!
Do you understand??!!
Do you??
It is all your Mind Set!!
IF you believe ONLY in "I lack (insert object here) ", then you will ONLY "SEE" "Evidence" that YOU LACK!!
Your Goals are NOT WOMEN.
Your Goal is to IMPROVE your LIFE and Enrich your Experiences.......
..AND GET RID OF THOSE SELF LIMITING BELIEFS AND DESTRUCTIVE HABITS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
How can you EXPECT success when you are NOT taking steps to move forward??
"Character is DESTINY."
What is YOUR Destiny??!
Build your CHARACTER , gentlemen.
It ain't what some of you wanted to hear........but this is your Salvation.
Only you can do this for yourself.
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Interceptor said:
words to live by!
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Been meaning to bump this.
Please try to develop a "discerning mind", and learn new patterns to think about yourself, women, and the world.
(While I may not have too much free time at the moment I will try to answer your questions as best as I can.)
Please try to develop a "discerning mind", and learn new patterns to think about yourself, women, and the world.
(While I may not have too much free time at the moment I will try to answer your questions as best as I can.)
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
C.O.B.R.A. wants YOU!
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
What "the FUKK" is going on around here these days????
"MAN UP", my Band of Brothers!!!
RESPECT.
VU
"MAN UP", my Band of Brothers!!!
RESPECT.
VU
Cockynfunny
Don Juan
WOOOOOH! HEELL YEAH!!!! I AM READY FOR THE BATTLE, sir.
My weapon of mass seduction is all cleaned up and polished up...
No time to waste on chit chat
p.S going to chapter two!
My weapon of mass seduction is all cleaned up and polished up...
No time to waste on chit chat
p.S going to chapter two!