Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Objective: The Gladiator Scenario!
- Thread starter Victory Unlimited
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
I can just imagine him showing up to the party looking like a trojan combatant, or "Guile" from Street Fighter.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Whoa!
There MIGHT be some misunderstanding here. My BAD, if I didn't make it clear:
No, the babe that told me that she threw herself a party to watch the men "perform" for her is just a co-worker of mine. I would call her a Freak with HO tendencies and a few Good Girl traits buried underneath.
Chocolate Bunny is another chick ENTIRELY. My estimation of her on a character level so far is this: She's a Good Girl with Freak tendencies and a few HO traits buried underneath.
How did I come up with this particular evaluation scale? Well, for those who are unfamiliar, a while back, Player Supreme did a post about the 3 different kinds of babes. He called them: Freaks, HOs, or Good Girls.
Here are a few definitions:
Freak
A babe who is all about herself. She's all about experiencing anything NEW. She loves variety sexually, and otherwise. She gets bored quick. She's the type that flirts heavily with you to either actually fukk you or just to tease you. Yes, she can be an attention whorre. It just depends on HOW attracted to you she really is to you.
She's a thrill-seeker. She's likes the hunt. She likes a challenge. She' like a female Pick Up Artist. These types will even marry you for the thrill of it. But once the honeymoon is over, she get's bored. Then it's time for her to Fukk your next door neighbor. LOL
HO
She's the type that will withhold her "goods" in order to sellout to the highest bidder. HOs are roleplayers. They are always trying to "come up". They will assume ANY personality in order to get what the want from a man---whether it's money, status, provisions, or whatever.
The thing about HOs is that they can easily masquerade as Freaks or Good Girls, IF they know that's what YOU'RE looking for. So don't tell'em! Let a babe BE what she is, then decide whether or not you want to deal with her long term or not. Yeah, they're the babes who are with you for some specific REASON.
The killing part is that that reason isn't ALWAYS material. I know a woman who married a guy just so that her kids would have a certain kind of "hair texture"!...sick, I know. The biggest thing to remember about HOs is that they will always disregard many of the man's shortcomings as long as THEY can still continue to get the most IMPORTANT thing that they want from him.
Good Girl
She's the type of babe who wholeheartedly believes in the Disney Fairy Tale about Prince Charming. She's the type who will do ANYTHING for a guy as long as she feels she is IN LOVE. She's the type who comes the closest to actually loving you just for YOU. She's the marrying kind----wifey material.
One of her best characteristics is that She will assume the role of the Freak just to please you. And she will also work to subdue her HO-ish tendencies because she "LOVES" you. A Good Girl will gravitate towards an exclusive LTR faster than the rest because she sincerely FEELS that she's in love with you.
This is different from a HO in that HOs can be satisfied a little longer with "sharing" you just as long as they are getting their PRIMARY need met. These are the chicks who actually enjoy being some guy's mistress or Bytch on-the-side.
By the way, all women have a little "HO" in them. In fact, a married friend of mine told me that the base level is about 25%. LOL
Although my Gladiator Scenario is still hypothetical, for some, it's already an "experienced" REALITY. Ask General Vulpine...
And one other thing:
Most guys usually have NO idea that they are being invited to a Gladiator Scenario / C0ck Party----they only find out AFTER they've already shown up. This post is to make people aware of just how VISCIOUS and MANIPULATIVE some of the female mindsets really can be.
Soldiers! Remember these words of Wisdom:
Fore warned IS fore armed. And when opportunity meets preparedness it is BETTER than luck.
March On.
There MIGHT be some misunderstanding here. My BAD, if I didn't make it clear:
No, the babe that told me that she threw herself a party to watch the men "perform" for her is just a co-worker of mine. I would call her a Freak with HO tendencies and a few Good Girl traits buried underneath.
Chocolate Bunny is another chick ENTIRELY. My estimation of her on a character level so far is this: She's a Good Girl with Freak tendencies and a few HO traits buried underneath.
How did I come up with this particular evaluation scale? Well, for those who are unfamiliar, a while back, Player Supreme did a post about the 3 different kinds of babes. He called them: Freaks, HOs, or Good Girls.
Here are a few definitions:
Freak
A babe who is all about herself. She's all about experiencing anything NEW. She loves variety sexually, and otherwise. She gets bored quick. She's the type that flirts heavily with you to either actually fukk you or just to tease you. Yes, she can be an attention whorre. It just depends on HOW attracted to you she really is to you.
She's a thrill-seeker. She's likes the hunt. She likes a challenge. She' like a female Pick Up Artist. These types will even marry you for the thrill of it. But once the honeymoon is over, she get's bored. Then it's time for her to Fukk your next door neighbor. LOL
HO
She's the type that will withhold her "goods" in order to sellout to the highest bidder. HOs are roleplayers. They are always trying to "come up". They will assume ANY personality in order to get what the want from a man---whether it's money, status, provisions, or whatever.
The thing about HOs is that they can easily masquerade as Freaks or Good Girls, IF they know that's what YOU'RE looking for. So don't tell'em! Let a babe BE what she is, then decide whether or not you want to deal with her long term or not. Yeah, they're the babes who are with you for some specific REASON.
The killing part is that that reason isn't ALWAYS material. I know a woman who married a guy just so that her kids would have a certain kind of "hair texture"!...sick, I know. The biggest thing to remember about HOs is that they will always disregard many of the man's shortcomings as long as THEY can still continue to get the most IMPORTANT thing that they want from him.
Good Girl
She's the type of babe who wholeheartedly believes in the Disney Fairy Tale about Prince Charming. She's the type who will do ANYTHING for a guy as long as she feels she is IN LOVE. She's the type who comes the closest to actually loving you just for YOU. She's the marrying kind----wifey material.
One of her best characteristics is that She will assume the role of the Freak just to please you. And she will also work to subdue her HO-ish tendencies because she "LOVES" you. A Good Girl will gravitate towards an exclusive LTR faster than the rest because she sincerely FEELS that she's in love with you.
This is different from a HO in that HOs can be satisfied a little longer with "sharing" you just as long as they are getting their PRIMARY need met. These are the chicks who actually enjoy being some guy's mistress or Bytch on-the-side.
By the way, all women have a little "HO" in them. In fact, a married friend of mine told me that the base level is about 25%. LOL
Although my Gladiator Scenario is still hypothetical, for some, it's already an "experienced" REALITY. Ask General Vulpine...
And one other thing:
Most guys usually have NO idea that they are being invited to a Gladiator Scenario / C0ck Party----they only find out AFTER they've already shown up. This post is to make people aware of just how VISCIOUS and MANIPULATIVE some of the female mindsets really can be.
Soldiers! Remember these words of Wisdom:
Fore warned IS fore armed. And when opportunity meets preparedness it is BETTER than luck.
March On.
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Victory Unlimited said:
Oh, it's true. You don't know it's a bratfest until you are armpits deep in the sausage-filled trenches. Bring your own mustard (and some mustard gas) and keep your buns guarded.
And, it doesn't have to be just one chick throwing the party. Two or more chicks can be hosting/inviting.
"Oh, who should we invite?"
"Bill, Bob, Joe, Ray, Chuck, Frank, and, uh... ya think Jessica wants to come?"
"Totally. I'm gonna invite Tom, Jack, Jason, Ron, Mike, George, and my friend Sarah."
"Oh, we're gonna have so much fun! Oh... my... gawd!"
Bleechh!
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
A woman I met online is doing something similar. She's invited me to meet up at a concert of this local musician she knows (likes); she said I could take a look at my competition, WTF??!!Latinoman said:
Luckily a flight attendant "friend" of mine from Brazil is in town that weekend and would enjoy helping me turns some heads at this concert.
The cool thing is that she's been in the music business acting in a few videos and we both known some of the same established artist. We plan on blowing the minds of these wannabees... Why has she agreed to help me with this? For the same reason I'm going, pure entertainment value!
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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My schpeel on the scenario. . .
I read a couple of brothers here have given the (in my opinion) perfect retort to her bullsh!t: Show up with another HB. Lavish attention on the HB and treat CB for what she is, the hostess with the mostess!
Eat her food drink her drink and have a blast. Treat her like a waitress.
Sarge on Seargent pvssy Slaughter!
I read a couple of brothers here have given the (in my opinion) perfect retort to her bullsh!t: Show up with another HB. Lavish attention on the HB and treat CB for what she is, the hostess with the mostess!
Eat her food drink her drink and have a blast. Treat her like a waitress.
Sarge on Seargent pvssy Slaughter!
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Beautiful Francisco. A lot of women are willing to do the "parade by" another gal to see the look on their faces. I pulled this off with a gal who played me like a fiddle a few months ago. I showed up at her art show with a hottie -- a friend who volunteered to do it (my friend is married) -- the look on the gal's face was priceless.
One the control is tipped in the other direction, women can't stand it.
One the control is tipped in the other direction, women can't stand it.
princelydeeds
Master Don Juan
Victory I understand your dilemma. Sometimes, Men climb mountains just because they are there. It's fun, exciting, and challenging, to set your sights on a woman, lock in on your target and annihilate your target. Its not that you are in love with her, or have her on a pedestal, it's simply that she is your mountain to climb for the week. If once the challenge is gone, you are able to move on with a clear head, I don't see the problem. It's like solving a jigsaw puzzle, when all the pieces fall into place, you can look at your work, be happy with your accomplishment, put the pieces back in the box and never even think about putting that puzzle together again.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
Exactly, Princelydeeds!!!!
The situation with this particular chick is coming to a close. A closure that has been designated by ME, not HER. (IMPORTANT NOTE: Never count on a woman to GIVE you closure, YOU be the one to decide when enough is enough.)
I don't know about anyone else, but I have found that once a woman starts making it difficult for me, or once a woman says or does something that I feel is the slightest bit selfish or disrespectful to me, I then start to lose respect for her.
I don't mean that I put her necessarily on a pedestal in the beginning, but what I DO tend to do is give each woman the benefit of the doubt. And once she starts to FLAKE or TEST excessively, either conciously or unconciously on her part, she starts to look more tarnished in my eyes.
That's when I force myself to put her into my WORTHLESS(to ME) CHICK category. I force myself to magnify her shortcomings to make myself see her as less appealing overall. That way, she becomes one more babe that I have to stop DJing because she's NOT READY FOR SOMEONE LIKE ME yet.
And because there are NO guarrantees that women who fit into this category will EVER be ready for me, I must leave her behind----like an injured soldier that I can't take with me because she WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH to make it.
And when that happens, that's when I embrace the harsh truth that hits me straight in the gut...
...my WAR rages on...
The situation with this particular chick is coming to a close. A closure that has been designated by ME, not HER. (IMPORTANT NOTE: Never count on a woman to GIVE you closure, YOU be the one to decide when enough is enough.)
I don't know about anyone else, but I have found that once a woman starts making it difficult for me, or once a woman says or does something that I feel is the slightest bit selfish or disrespectful to me, I then start to lose respect for her.
I don't mean that I put her necessarily on a pedestal in the beginning, but what I DO tend to do is give each woman the benefit of the doubt. And once she starts to FLAKE or TEST excessively, either conciously or unconciously on her part, she starts to look more tarnished in my eyes.
That's when I force myself to put her into my WORTHLESS(to ME) CHICK category. I force myself to magnify her shortcomings to make myself see her as less appealing overall. That way, she becomes one more babe that I have to stop DJing because she's NOT READY FOR SOMEONE LIKE ME yet.
And because there are NO guarrantees that women who fit into this category will EVER be ready for me, I must leave her behind----like an injured soldier that I can't take with me because she WASN'T GOOD ENOUGH to make it.
And when that happens, that's when I embrace the harsh truth that hits me straight in the gut...
...my WAR rages on...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
MISSION UPDATE:
The Gladiator Scenario actually happened. AND with the girl in question. It took place a month ago at her housewarming party. By this time I had begun to lose all interest in this chick, so when she called out of the blue and invited me, I was surprised but NOT impressed.
At this point, I was actively exploring more options, but I went to her party anyway. So here's the gist of what went down. I played it using a combination of the strategies that you soldiers here suggested.
I walked in and the house was packed. I mingled with everybody---the guys as much as the girls. I turned on the charm with the girls, never overtly flirting but still making my presence FELT wherever I went. I was asked lots of questions by a few girls and SOME guys. I never answered directly, I just answered using the whole "****y / funny" minset, and it seemed to go over well. However, there were NO girls there as fine as the guest of honor so I wasn't impressed enough to try to bag one of them.
A few times the chick in question pulled me to different areas to show me "the house". I was only able to give limited sexual eye contact and light physical contact the entire time I was there. Out of the corner of my eye I always noticed ONE particular guy always watching me.
I stayed for two hours. But before I left, I took the girl by the hand and led her outside (no privacy because it was a dam BARBECUE going on). She walked me halfway to my car and I heard the other chicks asking each other "who is THAT guy?". I leaned slightly forward to POSSIBLY go for the kiss when I noticed she was giving off that standoffish vibe, so I didn't fully commit to the kiss and instead let HER hug me.
I knew THEN, that this GLADIATOR SCENARIO was over. But to add the coup de grace, I spoke with her a few days later and she finally admitted to me that the guy who was "shadowing" us at the party was her OLD boyfriend---and she claimed she WASN'T involved with him anymore.
But as the weeks went by, this chick would call me and suggest "tentative" dates. Never anything specific. She would never commit to a date and time. No, it was always "iffy".
So it's an old story guys. She had LOW INTEREST in me from start to finish. I have no doubts now that any chick who would knowingly invite a guy to an event and act the way she did is obviously ON THE FENCE about the guy in the first place.
She wanted to keep me spinning as a DECORATIVE plate so it would boost her value amongst her friends and with her "old" boyfriend who I'm sure WAS and still IS banging her. But the experience was still informative.
The Gladiator Scenario can actually manifest itself in two ways: Accidentally or Planned. The only way to have a clue as to which one is ocurring is to have spent enough time with the chick to know what her most recent relationship status is, and what kind of girl she is (Freak, Ho, or Good Girl).
If The Gladiator Scenario manifests itself accidentally, then I'd use the same strategies that I used on this one, which is the one that I believe the majority agreed with here: Enter the arena and be the fukking MAN. (Whether that's MAXIMUS or SPARTICUS, you choose...lol)
However, if you see enough evidence that the Gladiator Scenario may be a PLANNED event orchestrated by a chick with ulterior motives or is in Attention Whhore mode, I would advise that you skip it all together.
I'm thinking that it would do more to raise THAT particular babe's interest level to NOT show up rather than to willingly enter into an obvious "Who's Coccck is Biggest" contest.
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.
Oh, and by the way, after I left that girl's party, ANOTHER girl I was seeing at the time came over that night and SEXED me. lol
But now, even SHE is out of the picture.(sigh) But that's ANOTHER story...
March on, Troops.
The Gladiator Scenario actually happened. AND with the girl in question. It took place a month ago at her housewarming party. By this time I had begun to lose all interest in this chick, so when she called out of the blue and invited me, I was surprised but NOT impressed.
At this point, I was actively exploring more options, but I went to her party anyway. So here's the gist of what went down. I played it using a combination of the strategies that you soldiers here suggested.
I walked in and the house was packed. I mingled with everybody---the guys as much as the girls. I turned on the charm with the girls, never overtly flirting but still making my presence FELT wherever I went. I was asked lots of questions by a few girls and SOME guys. I never answered directly, I just answered using the whole "****y / funny" minset, and it seemed to go over well. However, there were NO girls there as fine as the guest of honor so I wasn't impressed enough to try to bag one of them.
A few times the chick in question pulled me to different areas to show me "the house". I was only able to give limited sexual eye contact and light physical contact the entire time I was there. Out of the corner of my eye I always noticed ONE particular guy always watching me.
I stayed for two hours. But before I left, I took the girl by the hand and led her outside (no privacy because it was a dam BARBECUE going on). She walked me halfway to my car and I heard the other chicks asking each other "who is THAT guy?". I leaned slightly forward to POSSIBLY go for the kiss when I noticed she was giving off that standoffish vibe, so I didn't fully commit to the kiss and instead let HER hug me.
I knew THEN, that this GLADIATOR SCENARIO was over. But to add the coup de grace, I spoke with her a few days later and she finally admitted to me that the guy who was "shadowing" us at the party was her OLD boyfriend---and she claimed she WASN'T involved with him anymore.
But as the weeks went by, this chick would call me and suggest "tentative" dates. Never anything specific. She would never commit to a date and time. No, it was always "iffy".
So it's an old story guys. She had LOW INTEREST in me from start to finish. I have no doubts now that any chick who would knowingly invite a guy to an event and act the way she did is obviously ON THE FENCE about the guy in the first place.
She wanted to keep me spinning as a DECORATIVE plate so it would boost her value amongst her friends and with her "old" boyfriend who I'm sure WAS and still IS banging her. But the experience was still informative.
The Gladiator Scenario can actually manifest itself in two ways: Accidentally or Planned. The only way to have a clue as to which one is ocurring is to have spent enough time with the chick to know what her most recent relationship status is, and what kind of girl she is (Freak, Ho, or Good Girl).
If The Gladiator Scenario manifests itself accidentally, then I'd use the same strategies that I used on this one, which is the one that I believe the majority agreed with here: Enter the arena and be the fukking MAN. (Whether that's MAXIMUS or SPARTICUS, you choose...lol)
However, if you see enough evidence that the Gladiator Scenario may be a PLANNED event orchestrated by a chick with ulterior motives or is in Attention Whhore mode, I would advise that you skip it all together.
I'm thinking that it would do more to raise THAT particular babe's interest level to NOT show up rather than to willingly enter into an obvious "Who's Coccck is Biggest" contest.
MISSION ACCOMPLISHED.
Oh, and by the way, after I left that girl's party, ANOTHER girl I was seeing at the time came over that night and SEXED me. lol
But now, even SHE is out of the picture.(sigh) But that's ANOTHER story...
March on, Troops.
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No man it's: Left,right,left,right,up,down,up,down A-B-A-B Start.ER!C L!VE said:
Works on everything from women to Commando!
JustDoItAlways
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It is important to post follow-up this-is-what-finally-happened posts. The board cannot really help anyone if we don't know what finally happened in the end.
Thanks.
And I have to say, crazy chick and crazy story.
Thanks.
And I have to say, crazy chick and crazy story.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
So lets review shall we?
VICTORY starts this 'mission' on August 24th and on December 16th it's "mission accomplished"
VICTORY starts this 'mission' on August 24th and on December 16th it's "mission accomplished"
Informative enough to waste 4 months of effort on? Perhaps the purpose of your life is to serve as a warning for the rest of us?Victory Unlimited said:
That girl had so many red flags to start with that I wouldn't have stuck around to see it finished.Victory Unlimited said:
Red Flag for having kids. Half of her time is devouted for her work and the other half for her kids, which will leave the least amount of time for you. Not to mentioned that her kids will come first, she will see you as their next daddy and you will be raising someone elses kids and the fact that their father will never really be out of the picture. That is a tall order to start with.Victory Unlimited said:
Red Flag. I wouldn't call it a snag, more like I am bad with money.Victory Unlimited said:
Another red flag for lying. Women who say they are shy are usually not and tend to be a demon in a sack behind closed doors. Notice that she mentioned "she been in 3 LTRs her whole life"? what she failed to mentioned are all the other guys she fvcked on a STR's which will probably be in the double digits zone. She is no angel. Women hide short term relationships in order to not be deemed a slvt.Victory Unlimited said:
Vulpine
Master Don Juan
Settle down, RT.
I personally think VU was smart to back way off (or, all the way off) during this time. Otherwise she would have tried to get him to help her move! Plus, he disassociated himself from the stress/negativity of moving. Way to go, VU. Go, eat her food, drink her drink, socialize, then split and have a laugh at the triffling? Sounds like a good time to me.
A month ago was November, and back whenever, VU said the chick was moving. Moving and unpacking takes a considerable amount of time. It's not really 4 months, it's 3.Victory Unlimited said:
I personally think VU was smart to back way off (or, all the way off) during this time. Otherwise she would have tried to get him to help her move! Plus, he disassociated himself from the stress/negativity of moving. Way to go, VU. Go, eat her food, drink her drink, socialize, then split and have a laugh at the triffling? Sounds like a good time to me.
Victory Unlimited
Master Don Juan
LOL.
Your Strategic Assessment is INCORRECT, Mr. Tomassi. Consider this:
There are MANY missions.
MANY battles.
MANY fronts all in the SAME war.
You see...when one hunts multiple targets (OR----spins many "PLATES", if you prefer), there is often a need to drop many bombs, fire many missiles, shoot many shots, or to plant many sleeper cells into various locations within the enemy's territory(OR---- to cast a WIDE net of attraction made up of words, actions, and strategies all designed to draw in many different women).
You see, in times of WAR:
Not all attacks are launched simutaneously...
Not all bombs explode instantly...
Not all missiles hit their targets cleanly...
Not all shots fired are from sniper rifles----some are from shotguns...
And not all the results of DJ tactics manifest themselves within a predetermined time frame.
Tragedy would be the result of MISTAKING losing A BATTLE with losing THE WAR.
Read this again.
Here, there IS no tragedy. A highly trained (AND steadily learning) soldier with many target OPTIONS never lets grass grow beneath his feet. A relentless soldier who has continued to advance victoriously on the field of battle always recognizes AN OPPORTUNITY to take another shot at a past enemy who has reared their head up again----to take a PARTING SHOT at one who had got away.
Make no mistake, the commitment to better myself in all areas of life, and to help OTHERS in the process by recording it for posterity is not a small thing----It is a worthwhile endeavor. It is a MISSION.
This is NOT a hobby.
This is NOT a pastime.
This is NOT frivolity.
No my friend, THIS IS WAR!
And whenever a viable target has exposed themselves once AGAIN in instances such as these...a TRAINED SOLDIER always KNOWS what to do in these cases...
HE TAKES THE SHOT.
He ALWAYS takes the shot.
ALWAYS.
And to those who stand with me, who fight by my side, and who are among THE COALITION OF THE WILLING (lol), my Battle Cry remains the same:
...March on!
Your Strategic Assessment is INCORRECT, Mr. Tomassi. Consider this:
There are MANY missions.
MANY battles.
MANY fronts all in the SAME war.
You see...when one hunts multiple targets (OR----spins many "PLATES", if you prefer), there is often a need to drop many bombs, fire many missiles, shoot many shots, or to plant many sleeper cells into various locations within the enemy's territory(OR---- to cast a WIDE net of attraction made up of words, actions, and strategies all designed to draw in many different women).
You see, in times of WAR:
Not all attacks are launched simutaneously...
Not all bombs explode instantly...
Not all missiles hit their targets cleanly...
Not all shots fired are from sniper rifles----some are from shotguns...
And not all the results of DJ tactics manifest themselves within a predetermined time frame.
Tragedy would be the result of MISTAKING losing A BATTLE with losing THE WAR.
Read this again.
Here, there IS no tragedy. A highly trained (AND steadily learning) soldier with many target OPTIONS never lets grass grow beneath his feet. A relentless soldier who has continued to advance victoriously on the field of battle always recognizes AN OPPORTUNITY to take another shot at a past enemy who has reared their head up again----to take a PARTING SHOT at one who had got away.
Make no mistake, the commitment to better myself in all areas of life, and to help OTHERS in the process by recording it for posterity is not a small thing----It is a worthwhile endeavor. It is a MISSION.
This is NOT a hobby.
This is NOT a pastime.
This is NOT frivolity.
No my friend, THIS IS WAR!
And whenever a viable target has exposed themselves once AGAIN in instances such as these...a TRAINED SOLDIER always KNOWS what to do in these cases...
HE TAKES THE SHOT.
He ALWAYS takes the shot.
ALWAYS.
And to those who stand with me, who fight by my side, and who are among THE COALITION OF THE WILLING (lol), my Battle Cry remains the same:
...March on!
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Rollo Tomassi
Master Don Juan
yawwwwwwn,....
NEXT!
NEXT!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.