"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Objective: Drafting ALL you Guests Readers!

Victory Unlimited

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Yo, NEW Troops!




I've noticed that there are ALWAYS more guests than members viewing the Mature Man Forum. I would personally like to invite ALL of you guys who are here checking out this board to STOP being here just checking out this board.

Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. Yeah, that's right soldiers, don't just take information from this community, GIVE SOME BACK. lol

Wisdom is not the sole property of a select few. No, it is instead the shared property of the collective. And so is ignorance, silliness, and foolishness too, by the way...lol

So IF you're a Mature Man, and NOT a troublemaker (a troll), and you have a question, or better yet, if you can ANSWER a question----SIGN UP!

And don't just SIGN UP to join this Sosuave Army of Soldiers...SIGN UP AND JOIN IN ON THE DISCUSSION!

I haven't been here THAT long myself, but now that I'm here, I'm GLAD I came. So I will take a GREAT liberty here and PRESUME to speak for us all when I say this-----All of you age appropriate, mature-minded RECRUITS are welcome here.

So again, sign up...and POST.

I look forward to hearing from all of you who are willing to join this forum and bring some fresh, new voices to our discussions.



...and thank you for your support. lol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Whoa, whoa, WHOA!

Don't just sign up, sign up and start a bootcamp thread after you've read the bible.

Then, by all means, join the discussion.:flowers:
 

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I'm new. Then again, I signed up before I saw this thread. ;)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Victory Unlimited said:
...Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. Yeah, that's right soldiers, don't just take information from this community, GIVE SOME BACK. lol...
Uh-oh, open up all of the self promotion floodgates...
 

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Most of the time, I only log in when I want to write something.
That goes for pretty much every forum I participate in, unless I'm forced to log in first.
 

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It is up to them if they want to sign up or not. They are the same people who have been poping up here once in a while for the past 5 year ( ever since sosuave opened). They lack the knowledge of sharing and deciphering informations. Simply leave them a lone and I bet they'll be here for eternity....
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
...Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. ...
I'm too damn old to enlist. Wait a sec... I think I've already signed up... Damn Alzheimer's...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Francisco,


In keeping with the CURRENT political climate:

Consider yourself BACKDOOR drafted!:up: :crackup:
lol :whistle:
 

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Yo Francisco,


In keeping with the CURRENT political climate:

Consider yourself BACKDOOR drafted!:up: :crackup:
Hey, that border is closed to any and all activities, military or not! :trouble:
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hi Guys, How are you.

West Yorkshire regiment here. Albeit residing in Poland for the moment!
 

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Yo Yorkshire Alpha,

Welcome to the War, soldier!

This is a battle that is fought on many fronts. The primary objective is agreed upon by MANY here as becoming a better, more complete, and self-actualized MAN.

Self-improvement is the road we're on here. Improving your skills relating to women is just a sign post along the way.

We have A LOT of ground to cover as we march. So keep your head down and your feet dry. Be ever vigilant for threats to YOUR cause (whatever it is you PERSONALLY hope to accomplish here), be they foreign or domestic.

I am confident that you are representing us well in your part of the world. If you continue to play YOUR crucial role in your designated Theatre of War-----we can WIN THIS FIGHT!

March on!
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Yorkshire Alpha,

Welcome to the War, soldier!

This is a battle that is fought on many fronts. The primary objective is agreed upon by MANY here as becoming a better, more complete, and self-actualized MAN.

Self-improvement is the road we're on here. Improving your skills relating to women is just a sign post along the way.

We have A LOT of ground to cover as we march. So keep your head down and your feet dry. Be ever vigilant for threats to YOUR cause (whatever it is you PERSONALLY hope to accomplish here), be they foreign or domestic.

I am confident that you are representing us well in your part of the world. If you continue to play YOUR crucial role in your designated Theatre of War-----we can WIN THIS FIGHT!

March on!
March On !!! :cool:
 
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