"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Objective: Drafting ALL you Guests Readers!

Victory Unlimited

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Yo, NEW Troops!




I've noticed that there are ALWAYS more guests than members viewing the Mature Man Forum. I would personally like to invite ALL of you guys who are here checking out this board to STOP being here just checking out this board.

Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. Yeah, that's right soldiers, don't just take information from this community, GIVE SOME BACK. lol

Wisdom is not the sole property of a select few. No, it is instead the shared property of the collective. And so is ignorance, silliness, and foolishness too, by the way...lol

So IF you're a Mature Man, and NOT a troublemaker (a troll), and you have a question, or better yet, if you can ANSWER a question----SIGN UP!

And don't just SIGN UP to join this Sosuave Army of Soldiers...SIGN UP AND JOIN IN ON THE DISCUSSION!

I haven't been here THAT long myself, but now that I'm here, I'm GLAD I came. So I will take a GREAT liberty here and PRESUME to speak for us all when I say this-----All of you age appropriate, mature-minded RECRUITS are welcome here.

So again, sign up...and POST.

I look forward to hearing from all of you who are willing to join this forum and bring some fresh, new voices to our discussions.



...and thank you for your support. lol
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Whoa, whoa, WHOA!

Don't just sign up, sign up and start a bootcamp thread after you've read the bible.

Then, by all means, join the discussion.:flowers:
 

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I'm new. Then again, I signed up before I saw this thread. ;)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Victory Unlimited said:
...Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. Yeah, that's right soldiers, don't just take information from this community, GIVE SOME BACK. lol...
Uh-oh, open up all of the self promotion floodgates...
 

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Most of the time, I only log in when I want to write something.
That goes for pretty much every forum I participate in, unless I'm forced to log in first.
 

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It is up to them if they want to sign up or not. They are the same people who have been poping up here once in a while for the past 5 year ( ever since sosuave opened). They lack the knowledge of sharing and deciphering informations. Simply leave them a lone and I bet they'll be here for eternity....
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Victory Unlimited said:
...Instead, I encourage you to SIGN UP. ...
I'm too damn old to enlist. Wait a sec... I think I've already signed up... Damn Alzheimer's...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Francisco,


In keeping with the CURRENT political climate:

Consider yourself BACKDOOR drafted!:up: :crackup:
lol :whistle:
 

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Yo Francisco,


In keeping with the CURRENT political climate:

Consider yourself BACKDOOR drafted!:up: :crackup:
Hey, that border is closed to any and all activities, military or not! :trouble:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hi Guys, How are you.

West Yorkshire regiment here. Albeit residing in Poland for the moment!
 

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Yo Yorkshire Alpha,

Welcome to the War, soldier!

This is a battle that is fought on many fronts. The primary objective is agreed upon by MANY here as becoming a better, more complete, and self-actualized MAN.

Self-improvement is the road we're on here. Improving your skills relating to women is just a sign post along the way.

We have A LOT of ground to cover as we march. So keep your head down and your feet dry. Be ever vigilant for threats to YOUR cause (whatever it is you PERSONALLY hope to accomplish here), be they foreign or domestic.

I am confident that you are representing us well in your part of the world. If you continue to play YOUR crucial role in your designated Theatre of War-----we can WIN THIS FIGHT!

March on!
 

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Victory Unlimited said:
Yo Yorkshire Alpha,

Welcome to the War, soldier!

This is a battle that is fought on many fronts. The primary objective is agreed upon by MANY here as becoming a better, more complete, and self-actualized MAN.

Self-improvement is the road we're on here. Improving your skills relating to women is just a sign post along the way.

We have A LOT of ground to cover as we march. So keep your head down and your feet dry. Be ever vigilant for threats to YOUR cause (whatever it is you PERSONALLY hope to accomplish here), be they foreign or domestic.

I am confident that you are representing us well in your part of the world. If you continue to play YOUR crucial role in your designated Theatre of War-----we can WIN THIS FIGHT!

March on!
March On !!! :cool:
 
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