That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:PlayHer Man said:Fat women don't deserve your respect. So don't give it to them.
A fat woman is like the female version of a broke man who lives with his parents and has no job. Women show him no respect (with little regard for WHY he is in the situation he is in.. they don't give a sh!t WHY.. they just know he is a loser and treat him as such).
Show the same lack of mercy for fat women. Health problem? Depression? Bad genes? NOT YOUR PROBLEM. She is fat.. therefore she is a loser. Shame her and show her no respect whatsoever. Life is tough.
This is one reason why I am attracted to several Filipino women that I know. Even the older ones stay shapely because of the diet that they eat.goundra said:Fat is VERY rare in 3rd world women, especially Asians. It is almost impossible to get a US woman to lose weight.
I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.JohnChops said:Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better.
zekko said:I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Totally unfair to that guy. At least he's not married to her. He still has a shot to leave. Sorry I know it's your cousin.pdx1138 said:Her boyfriend
who is a great guy dated her when she was thin and has stuck with her even though she's huge now.
JohnChops said:This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:
But seriously, what is wrong with you? Just because someone is fat ... they deserve no respect off the bat :nervous: Treat them the way you want to be treated. "Oh you're just some white knight puZzZzzy faggot trying to defend fat people" Listen PlayHerMan, I'm not defending fat people, I understand what its like to be overweight. It blows, and having people look down on you makes it suck even worse. No need to be so negative/dark/emo/etc.
Bad genes are out of ones reach, those are inherited. Did you read a Winney the pooh science book or something? For something you cannot control you shouldn't worry about it. And obesity has been linked as an inheritable trait in SOME. In most its the bad habits they pick up from their parents.
The fat people that are the ones that deserve no respect are the ones who complain complain and complain and do NOTHING about it. And then try to find excuses like "curvy women" etc for their obesity. Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better. I mean god damn, there so many bariatric wards opening up in the hospital its like becoming the new norm.
This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.This is fvcking retarded. I show respect to those that show it to me. Get out in the real world, man.
...which is why I always get straight black Americanos lolthe_stig said:Combine that with a trip to Starbucks for a 680 calorie Mocha Frappuccino (the Women line-up out the door for that sh!t near my Office) and you can blow through 2000 calories per day without blinking an eye, and be none-the-wiser.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
PlayHer Man said:This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.
GotED? said:I tend to think that overweight girls/women have a few inherent personality flaws (and thus wouldn't touch them with a fishing pole, no fishing here for them):
1) Lack of self-control, self-discipline. If she can't stop shoving Little Debbies down her mouth, then she can't stop opening her vaggy hole to other men.
2) Lack self-love. She can cry wolf all day but in the end of the night, all alone by herself, that woman/girl truly does not love herself enough to improve.
3) Lazy. Yep. Plenty of those out there that hitches on to a man like a blood-sucking leech in life.
4) Lack motivation and focus. If you can't lose weight, you can't plan and complete sh!t in life. Losing weight is definitely easier than making money.
With respect,
Exodus