I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:PlayHer Man said:Fat women don't deserve your respect. So don't give it to them.
A fat woman is like the female version of a broke man who lives with his parents and has no job. Women show him no respect (with little regard for WHY he is in the situation he is in.. they don't give a sh!t WHY.. they just know he is a loser and treat him as such).
Show the same lack of mercy for fat women. Health problem? Depression? Bad genes? NOT YOUR PROBLEM. She is fat.. therefore she is a loser. Shame her and show her no respect whatsoever. Life is tough.
This is one reason why I am attracted to several Filipino women that I know. Even the older ones stay shapely because of the diet that they eat.goundra said:Fat is VERY rare in 3rd world women, especially Asians. It is almost impossible to get a US woman to lose weight.
I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.JohnChops said:Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better.
zekko said:I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Totally unfair to that guy. At least he's not married to her. He still has a shot to leave. Sorry I know it's your cousin.pdx1138 said:Her boyfriend
who is a great guy dated her when she was thin and has stuck with her even though she's huge now.
JohnChops said:This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:
But seriously, what is wrong with you? Just because someone is fat ... they deserve no respect off the bat :nervous: Treat them the way you want to be treated. "Oh you're just some white knight puZzZzzy faggot trying to defend fat people" Listen PlayHerMan, I'm not defending fat people, I understand what its like to be overweight. It blows, and having people look down on you makes it suck even worse. No need to be so negative/dark/emo/etc.
Bad genes are out of ones reach, those are inherited. Did you read a Winney the pooh science book or something? For something you cannot control you shouldn't worry about it. And obesity has been linked as an inheritable trait in SOME. In most its the bad habits they pick up from their parents.
The fat people that are the ones that deserve no respect are the ones who complain complain and complain and do NOTHING about it. And then try to find excuses like "curvy women" etc for their obesity. Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better. I mean god damn, there so many bariatric wards opening up in the hospital its like becoming the new norm.
This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.This is fvcking retarded. I show respect to those that show it to me. Get out in the real world, man.
...which is why I always get straight black Americanos lolthe_stig said:Combine that with a trip to Starbucks for a 680 calorie Mocha Frappuccino (the Women line-up out the door for that sh!t near my Office) and you can blow through 2000 calories per day without blinking an eye, and be none-the-wiser.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
PlayHer Man said:This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.
GotED? said:I tend to think that overweight girls/women have a few inherent personality flaws (and thus wouldn't touch them with a fishing pole, no fishing here for them):
1) Lack of self-control, self-discipline. If she can't stop shoving Little Debbies down her mouth, then she can't stop opening her vaggy hole to other men.
2) Lack self-love. She can cry wolf all day but in the end of the night, all alone by herself, that woman/girl truly does not love herself enough to improve.
3) Lazy. Yep. Plenty of those out there that hitches on to a man like a blood-sucking leech in life.
4) Lack motivation and focus. If you can't lose weight, you can't plan and complete sh!t in life. Losing weight is definitely easier than making money.
With respect,
Exodus