That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:PlayHer Man said:Fat women don't deserve your respect. So don't give it to them.
A fat woman is like the female version of a broke man who lives with his parents and has no job. Women show him no respect (with little regard for WHY he is in the situation he is in.. they don't give a sh!t WHY.. they just know he is a loser and treat him as such).
Show the same lack of mercy for fat women. Health problem? Depression? Bad genes? NOT YOUR PROBLEM. She is fat.. therefore she is a loser. Shame her and show her no respect whatsoever. Life is tough.
This is one reason why I am attracted to several Filipino women that I know. Even the older ones stay shapely because of the diet that they eat.goundra said:Fat is VERY rare in 3rd world women, especially Asians. It is almost impossible to get a US woman to lose weight.
I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.JohnChops said:Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better.
zekko said:I've said this over and over but I'll say it again. Exercise is good, but I really think that diet is the main reason people (women, in this case) get fat.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Totally unfair to that guy. At least he's not married to her. He still has a shot to leave. Sorry I know it's your cousin.pdx1138 said:Her boyfriend
who is a great guy dated her when she was thin and has stuck with her even though she's huge now.
JohnChops said:This is the east coast commoner shining through on the internet to show his east coast friendliness and personality! And the award for most negative poster on the board shifts to the RIGHT to PlayHerMan! Burroughs please send your trophy in, dust it off, I know you've had it for awhile. Time to give it up :crackup:
But seriously, what is wrong with you? Just because someone is fat ... they deserve no respect off the bat :nervous: Treat them the way you want to be treated. "Oh you're just some white knight puZzZzzy faggot trying to defend fat people" Listen PlayHerMan, I'm not defending fat people, I understand what its like to be overweight. It blows, and having people look down on you makes it suck even worse. No need to be so negative/dark/emo/etc.
Bad genes are out of ones reach, those are inherited. Did you read a Winney the pooh science book or something? For something you cannot control you shouldn't worry about it. And obesity has been linked as an inheritable trait in SOME. In most its the bad habits they pick up from their parents.
The fat people that are the ones that deserve no respect are the ones who complain complain and complain and do NOTHING about it. And then try to find excuses like "curvy women" etc for their obesity. Even then, they should come to their sense and hit the gym to make their lives better. I mean god damn, there so many bariatric wards opening up in the hospital its like becoming the new norm.
This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.This is fvcking retarded. I show respect to those that show it to me. Get out in the real world, man.
...which is why I always get straight black Americanos lolthe_stig said:Combine that with a trip to Starbucks for a 680 calorie Mocha Frappuccino (the Women line-up out the door for that sh!t near my Office) and you can blow through 2000 calories per day without blinking an eye, and be none-the-wiser.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
PlayHer Man said:This is in the context of dating bro. Isn't that what we're mostly talking about? Just like how a hot girl will give no respect to a "broke loser" it goes the same way for fat women.
GotED? said:I tend to think that overweight girls/women have a few inherent personality flaws (and thus wouldn't touch them with a fishing pole, no fishing here for them):
1) Lack of self-control, self-discipline. If she can't stop shoving Little Debbies down her mouth, then she can't stop opening her vaggy hole to other men.
2) Lack self-love. She can cry wolf all day but in the end of the night, all alone by herself, that woman/girl truly does not love herself enough to improve.
3) Lazy. Yep. Plenty of those out there that hitches on to a man like a blood-sucking leech in life.
4) Lack motivation and focus. If you can't lose weight, you can't plan and complete sh!t in life. Losing weight is definitely easier than making money.
With respect,
Exodus