mackdaddy27
Senior Don Juan
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connecticut representin....
40 mins to the city !
40 mins to the city !
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
NY/NJ when is a good time for u?
- Thread starter daguru
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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cold approach is easy. getting the number is hard.
Well actually, I've learned recently that getting numbers isn't that hard. But lol numbers don't mean much though and you'll probably get lots of flakes because even the best guys get flakes, it's apart of the game.escaleraroyal said:
I live in Ironbound Newark and im down for anything during the weekends.
And you don't necessarily need to speak the language.
All of yous around hit me up.
[email protected]
And you don't necessarily need to speak the language.
All of yous around hit me up.
[email protected]
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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Who is the jineka dude, he's been posting this irrelevant one-liners with the cheerleader all over the forum.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
I live in nyc so whoeva also lives in the area then pm me so we can holla at some girls
I'm from Jersey. I have no experience doing direct approaches but I need someone to push me to do it. It doesn't amtter if you have no experience either. Just looking for anyone who wants to grow with me and be good at this ****. msg me.
guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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I want in on this too, I live in Long Island. Lets seriously work something out