"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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NY/NJ when is a good time for u?

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ElStud

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escaleraroyal said:
cold approach is easy. getting the number is hard.
Well actually, I've learned recently that getting numbers isn't that hard. But lol numbers don't mean much though and you'll probably get lots of flakes because even the best guys get flakes, it's apart of the game.
 

EnriTT

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I live in Ironbound Newark and im down for anything during the weekends.

And you don't necessarily need to speak the language. ;)
All of yous around hit me up.
[email protected]
 

jineka

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This was a good suggestion that you put up here...dude…..hope that it benefits all the ones who land up here.




:cheer:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Flabbergasped?

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Who is the jineka dude, he's been posting this irrelevant one-liners with the cheerleader all over the forum.
 

YoungSir4sho

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I live in nyc so whoeva also lives in the area then pm me so we can holla at some girls
 

r0cky

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I'm from Jersey. I have no experience doing direct approaches but I need someone to push me to do it. It doesn't amtter if you have no experience either. Just looking for anyone who wants to grow with me and be good at this ****. msg me.
 
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