mackdaddy27
Senior Don Juan
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connecticut representin....
40 mins to the city !
40 mins to the city !
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
NY/NJ when is a good time for u?
- Thread starter daguru
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
escaleraroyal
Master Don Juan
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- Jan 21, 2008
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cold approach is easy. getting the number is hard.
Well actually, I've learned recently that getting numbers isn't that hard. But lol numbers don't mean much though and you'll probably get lots of flakes because even the best guys get flakes, it's apart of the game.escaleraroyal said:
I live in Ironbound Newark and im down for anything during the weekends.
And you don't necessarily need to speak the language.
All of yous around hit me up.
[email protected]
And you don't necessarily need to speak the language.
All of yous around hit me up.
[email protected]
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Flabbergasped?
Master Don Juan
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Who is the jineka dude, he's been posting this irrelevant one-liners with the cheerleader all over the forum.
YoungSir4sho
Senior Don Juan
I live in nyc so whoeva also lives in the area then pm me so we can holla at some girls
I'm from Jersey. I have no experience doing direct approaches but I need someone to push me to do it. It doesn't amtter if you have no experience either. Just looking for anyone who wants to grow with me and be good at this ****. msg me.
guywhoneedshelp
Master Don Juan
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I want in on this too, I live in Long Island. Lets seriously work something out