Numerous partners

[Maxwell]

Firstly, a disclaimer; I am a virgin who has never dated, so I am speaking from observation of others, and I'm open to being told I am totally wrong. I hope I am, in fact.

But in regards to having more than one sex partner, either at a time, or within a small time frame, there seems to be a big problem.

Most girls I know seem to follow the "no sex without a LTR" mantra; they won't have sex until you've dated them for a while, they won't have sex if you have a GF, and they won't have sex if they know you've hooked up with someone else recently. In this environment, how can one lay several without only getting one every 6 months or whatever, and having more trouble hooking up all the time as your reputation as a "player" spreads and women shun you like the Bird Flu?

 

[Jitterbug]

You're asking an Intermediate question when you're still at Total Beginner level. Go out, get numbers, get some dates and then find out for yourself whether those girls are only saying so and not actually sticking to their words.

 

[cockerdumbnuts]

girl are not logical. they are emotional. you're asking them a logical question and getting a response to what they think they want. but if you spark their emotions, all that ltr bs is forgotten about. at least in that moment.

so get out there and learn.

 

[oakraiderz2]

How would two complete strangers know that youre hooking up with both of them? Everyone isnt connected.

 

[Maxwell]

How would two complete strangers know that youre hooking up with both of them? Everyone isnt connected.

Not everyone, but in communities like university campuses, towns and suburbs word gets around, and lots of people know each other.

Thanks for the advice Jitterbug and ****erdumbnuts. At present I've deferred university for year to get over my OCD, which means I'm in a town populated almost entirely by children and oldies, but once uni starts next Feb I'll be jumping in there. At this point, all I can do is theorise.