"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Numbers over Facebook

Aldo

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There's this one girl who I have a strong feeling is interested. She's been so since 8th grade. I'm in a class with her again now in 11th, and she's showing even stronger signs. We also flirt and we talk from time to time (now much less so since the teacher switched around seats).

I really DON'T want to ask her for her number in class (which is the only time I see her in person) for various reasons, and it'll not only make me feel extremely uncomfortable, but it'll make her feel the same way.

I saw her in the halls today but I p*ssied out of talking to her and just ignored her. I know, stupid thing to do, but it happened.

So I was wondering if I could and should ask her for her number over Facebook? If so, how should I do it? Through private message? It seems to be the only way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thedoc

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Why would it make you uncomfortable, because there are other people around?
 

Ice882

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uhhh...

it really sounds like you need to sack up.
 

eaglez1177

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Wow man. You gotta grow a pair and do it in person. Come on dude listen to yourself, your so afraid to get a number in person that you wanna do it over a facebook private message? Thats pathetic. Asking for girls numbers when its not in person will NEVER work out.
 

TheeAlphaMale05

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iight IF YOU ABSOLUTLU HAVE TO
start a facebook chat with her. you can open wit a funny comment about the class. conversate REAL quick. make her laugh, be ****y funny and then at the PEAK of the convo. say:
"Facebook is too much of a distraction, im bout to get off to get sum work done, but u can text me if you want"
If she is interested then shell say she doesnt have your number.
then u jus say:
"oh okay ill give it to you jus promise not to stalk me deal?"
shelll agree then u give her ur number and SHEll text or call you.

But on sum real, if u want this to work ur gonna have to man up and be a ****in alpha male. jus be confident and dont give a **** about wat she thinks.. remember its all a game, have fun play around, be a player
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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