"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Numbers over Facebook

Aldo

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There's this one girl who I have a strong feeling is interested. She's been so since 8th grade. I'm in a class with her again now in 11th, and she's showing even stronger signs. We also flirt and we talk from time to time (now much less so since the teacher switched around seats).

I really DON'T want to ask her for her number in class (which is the only time I see her in person) for various reasons, and it'll not only make me feel extremely uncomfortable, but it'll make her feel the same way.

I saw her in the halls today but I p*ssied out of talking to her and just ignored her. I know, stupid thing to do, but it happened.

So I was wondering if I could and should ask her for her number over Facebook? If so, how should I do it? Through private message? It seems to be the only way.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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thedoc

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Why would it make you uncomfortable, because there are other people around?
 

Ice882

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uhhh...

it really sounds like you need to sack up.
 

eaglez1177

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Wow man. You gotta grow a pair and do it in person. Come on dude listen to yourself, your so afraid to get a number in person that you wanna do it over a facebook private message? Thats pathetic. Asking for girls numbers when its not in person will NEVER work out.
 

TheeAlphaMale05

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iight IF YOU ABSOLUTLU HAVE TO
start a facebook chat with her. you can open wit a funny comment about the class. conversate REAL quick. make her laugh, be ****y funny and then at the PEAK of the convo. say:
"Facebook is too much of a distraction, im bout to get off to get sum work done, but u can text me if you want"
If she is interested then shell say she doesnt have your number.
then u jus say:
"oh okay ill give it to you jus promise not to stalk me deal?"
shelll agree then u give her ur number and SHEll text or call you.

But on sum real, if u want this to work ur gonna have to man up and be a ****in alpha male. jus be confident and dont give a **** about wat she thinks.. remember its all a game, have fun play around, be a player
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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