"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Numbers over Facebook

Aldo

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There's this one girl who I have a strong feeling is interested. She's been so since 8th grade. I'm in a class with her again now in 11th, and she's showing even stronger signs. We also flirt and we talk from time to time (now much less so since the teacher switched around seats).

I really DON'T want to ask her for her number in class (which is the only time I see her in person) for various reasons, and it'll not only make me feel extremely uncomfortable, but it'll make her feel the same way.

I saw her in the halls today but I p*ssied out of talking to her and just ignored her. I know, stupid thing to do, but it happened.

So I was wondering if I could and should ask her for her number over Facebook? If so, how should I do it? Through private message? It seems to be the only way.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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thedoc

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Why would it make you uncomfortable, because there are other people around?
 

Ice882

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uhhh...

it really sounds like you need to sack up.
 

eaglez1177

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Wow man. You gotta grow a pair and do it in person. Come on dude listen to yourself, your so afraid to get a number in person that you wanna do it over a facebook private message? Thats pathetic. Asking for girls numbers when its not in person will NEVER work out.
 

TheeAlphaMale05

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iight IF YOU ABSOLUTLU HAVE TO
start a facebook chat with her. you can open wit a funny comment about the class. conversate REAL quick. make her laugh, be ****y funny and then at the PEAK of the convo. say:
"Facebook is too much of a distraction, im bout to get off to get sum work done, but u can text me if you want"
If she is interested then shell say she doesnt have your number.
then u jus say:
"oh okay ill give it to you jus promise not to stalk me deal?"
shelll agree then u give her ur number and SHEll text or call you.

But on sum real, if u want this to work ur gonna have to man up and be a ****in alpha male. jus be confident and dont give a **** about wat she thinks.. remember its all a game, have fun play around, be a player
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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