"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Number closing in college good or bad Idea?

DJ_in_making

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I was told by an uncle of mine (Who's a pretty good don juan himself) not to #close after an approach. He says not to come on too strong and just keep talking to them.
I kinda feel like that's wasting time, b/c at a big campus like that, it may be hard to spot the same girls for a while. What do you guys think about this? Is number closing too much?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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tnx guys.
I'm not saying I won't see them ever again, but I'm gonna have to wait for a like days b4 I see them in a course again and I feel like I'm wasting time.
But alright, y'all say I should play it light? Wait a few days b4 finally asking for it?
 
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