"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Number closing in college good or bad Idea?

DJ_in_making

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I was told by an uncle of mine (Who's a pretty good don juan himself) not to #close after an approach. He says not to come on too strong and just keep talking to them.
I kinda feel like that's wasting time, b/c at a big campus like that, it may be hard to spot the same girls for a while. What do you guys think about this? Is number closing too much?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJ_in_making

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tnx guys.
I'm not saying I won't see them ever again, but I'm gonna have to wait for a like days b4 I see them in a course again and I feel like I'm wasting time.
But alright, y'all say I should play it light? Wait a few days b4 finally asking for it?
 
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