"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Number closing in college good or bad Idea?

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I was told by an uncle of mine (Who's a pretty good don juan himself) not to #close after an approach. He says not to come on too strong and just keep talking to them.
I kinda feel like that's wasting time, b/c at a big campus like that, it may be hard to spot the same girls for a while. What do you guys think about this? Is number closing too much?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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tnx guys.
I'm not saying I won't see them ever again, but I'm gonna have to wait for a like days b4 I see them in a course again and I feel like I'm wasting time.
But alright, y'all say I should play it light? Wait a few days b4 finally asking for it?
 
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